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Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Who Knew Mornings Looked Like This?


Since April 28th I have taken a photo every morning for my top. I am not a morning person. I have never, ever, under any circumstance, been a morning person. I often stay up all night and I see the sunrise from that angle. I can't recall a time I saw it after waking up. 
I started working out a few times a week on that date too. It was suppose to be daily. I wasn't very good at keeping to that request. My argument went something like: I am incredibly active, I get at least 25 minutes of aerobic activity a day, I've been a 2 pack a day smoker for 30 years and btw there are only 24 hours in a day.
On July 24th an awful thing happened. Remember I asked you to respect my privacy on that one. I am still holding you to that request. I am only referring back to it so I might say, on July 25th I decided I had to again make dramatic changes to how I do things. 
That happens. There is a yin-yang tattoo on the back of my neck, balance.  Balance isn't a static thing. It is not this and that being equal at all times. It is this grows, so that shirks. This expands and that must contract. It is this approach worked for all this time, but time has moved forward and so must you. 
One of the first things I had to address was my finances. I don't wish to overshare on my blog. Stop laughing. Showing my breasts is not oversharing, that's just playful teasing. Sharing my bank statements, that's oversharing. Those that know me know the circumstances that returned me to Virginia, and those that do not, well you probably don't need to know. My finances did not, that could be the complete statement right there. My finances did not. I entertained a couple of ideas. They all would have ended with sacrificing one or the other of the two things I feel most passionately about. Everyone reading knows what one of those is, right? I am not ready to retire. Some of you know what the other is, I am not asking that corner of my world to make another sacrifice ever again.

A very good friend of mine had talked to me a couple of times about the company they were investing their time in, and I revisited the idea with them. And I went in circles with the idea for a little bit. I have done direct sales before. I am pretty sure I promoted Avon on this blog for a little while, remember? I love Avon. I have a package of Skin So Soft wipes in my purse right now, and another in my glove box. And, I bet the other 6 Avon Ladies that live in my complex do too. I support my friends who work in direct sales. Because when it comes down to it, it is a form of business ownership that is within the reach of most people's budgets. I love Athena's toys, and when I am in the mood for a new battery powered partner, I need to check my notes to remember which of my Goddess friends I ordered from last time.  This company is brand new to the US market, my upline is part of the team bringing it to the US. I love Jamberry Nails, but when I want to change the color on my toes, I don't want to bust out my hair dryer. Jeunesse is health and wellness, there are no gimmicks in any of our lines. Wait, that may be the conflict I can't get past there. Health and wellness. Anyone who has eaten at my table has been subjected to a lecture on denatured proteins that happen when cereal is created using high heat extrusion to create puffs, flakes & special shapes. Anyone who has eaten at my table has likely been fed tomato sauce that was canned in my kitchen from tomatoes grown in my garden, seasoned with basil from my window box. My credibility on a subject I am passionate about can not be bought with an all expenses paid trip to Orlando. Even if I am put up in a suite at the Hyatt Regency on the 14th floor with a breathtaking view, an oversized bathtub and treated like a princess. Thankfully, it can be leased.  The science behind our skincare line is cutting edge. The nutritional composition of our supplements is based on a sound research.  And if you can't just take my word for it, because a woman who looks like me can't possibly also understand complex studies, or advanced scientific theories, I'll just smile and send you the links. 

I started taking Jeunesse AM & PM supplements the last week of July. Since then I have added several other products to my routine, but those were what I opted to try first.
Every day since August 1st I have worked out for a half hour within the first hour I am awake. 
One of the ethical standards hammered home in the training through Jeunesse is full disclosure. No trick lighting, no claims of curing illness, if other things factored into the results your presenting- state them. So in the name of full disclosure, on August 7th I began taking Wellbutrin to assist with the next thing I am going to state. 
On August 9th, which for the record was fifty-four days ago, I quit smoking.  
That's a photo I sent to my top maybe a week ago. It was around 9:30 in the morning. I had worked out already. I had meditated. Breakfast soup was simmering. Cassidy's Castle had been tidied up. Showering, supplements, medicine and day make-up were all checked off my To Do List. I don't think I had had my caffeine yet. I may have, and I don't want to fib. But um, ya, kind of look a little like a morning person.  I look like I am happy about it too. This is what every morning looks like now. 

And yes, I do want to grow my team. Why wouldn't I? This has been an amazing journey for me already and I know it's only going to grow from here. So go check out my site and shoot me a text. Because I haven't said anything about the travel opportunities or the philanthropy arm of the company, Jeunesse Kids, yet.  I haven't said anything about my upline and how much I have learned from them already. I suppose I implied how well the products work, but I haven't shown ya the video of wrinkles erasing themselves. 

Next entry, I promise I won't make you wait a month again for the next entry, we'll get back to indulging all you little voyeurs. 


Monday, December 3, 2018

anyway the wind blows

       Next time I need to plan better. I feel like for as much time as I spend writing lists, I say that a lot. I said that in email the other day. I am pretty sure I said it a couple weeks ago too. It is true. Mondays are the day I post where and when you can find me. Sunday at 7:15 pm, I have no idea where I am going or when I will be there.
      My ocd is quiet, I feel really good about the statements above.
     
I'm really into tarot cards, divination, horoscopes etc. I am a rational person. I feel silly putting stock into what effect a person's birthday has on their personality. But also- I enjoy feeling silly. Whether it is a self-fulfilling prophecy, a spin on the placebo effect or that somehow what the stars are doing on the day one is born has a huge impact on the person you are destined to be, I have no idea. I enjoy these things, that is enough of a reason for me to spend time indulging in them.
       I read my cards almost daily. Last night I pulled a single card from a deck I seldom use. I am not clairvoyant, I just pull a card and read what the accompanying book says that card means.  I want to share a piece of what the book said this card meant. Do you know how much joy the universe gains from being able to give to you? When you delight in what you receive (sic) the universe is fully received by you.  
       It spoke to me. I love to give gifts. I love when I see a thing, and it reminds me that a person I know loves that thing. So I give this thing to them and their eyes go all big and shiny. Giving gifts to adults is a pretty safe thing to do. It might thrill them like I hope, or it might be a miss but they will be polite about it. Giving gifts to kids though, that is the best. It is a higher risk. If the gift is a flop, even kids with great manners are usually unable to hide their disappointment. If it is a hit though, some of them will literally bounce off the walls with their happiness. I love that.

Lately I feel like I work a lot of hours. I wear many hats. I worry a lot. 

That's one way of looking at it, but here is another:

     I have a job I love, and because I excel at it, I am in high demand. I have many skills, and I have found ways to best apply them. I have a many things I care deeply about in my life. I have an abundance of things I care deeply about.
    The universe has given me so much. I have done my best to always recognize that, to be thankful, but perhaps recently I had forgotten to delight in it.  Etiquette dictates that we show gratitude when we receive a gift, but delight shows our sincerity. Delight is what we give back when really this is exactly what I wished for.
        Tomorrow, today when you are reading this, is Monday. I have no idea where I will be. This is the first week of a new month, I have no idea what this month will have in store for me. It is my intention simply to demonstrate my delight.



Ok- Maybe I don't quite look delightful here, but I like it
& it didn't fit anywhere else. 



Did you stay until the very end? Are you on to my tricks now? There is a very high probability of travel in the next couple weeks. I won't ask you to hold your breath this time, but pay attention. 

Monday, October 22, 2018

Finally Formally Unveiling New Project

      Happy Monday. I didn't time travel this weekend. This post is being penned on Monday afternoon, long after the goal of all posts posting at 11:11 AM on the day they are assigned. Slightly off-schedule, but overall staying on task. I hope to catch up the posts for the rest of the week tomorrow, and be back on schedule too. 

     Monday posts are for lists, schedules and announcing new stuff. Let's get on with it. 
     Mistress is still in Richmond, Virginia. This is both a wonderful, and an awful thing. Richmond feeds my soul,I will stay here until I am old and gray and really not complain about it much. But I do have things to do in Massachusetts. My regulars are blowing up my phone, and I am so sorry that I still don't have travel dates firmly established. I very much want to see my favorite bottoms. I love that I am meeting new subs here, but I haven't been here long enough to have the same connection established with them. There is something so special about seeing a client you have known for a decade, can't have that in a place you have only been for 2 months. I have projects on hold with Mistresses Liberty and Dahlia, and several lovely little subbies that I am so disappointed that I have to continue to reschedule. I also need to claim my winter wardrobe, and move my belongings to long term storage or light them on fire, whatever feels right in the moment. The things that altered my plans were beyond my control. I am now reclaiming all control of all things, and seeing what I can do to magic a trip up soon. So please know coming back to Massachusetts is very high on my To Do List, it is a top 10 item on a list that is at least 100 items long. When I know dates, you will know dates. I will announce it loudly on all platforms. 

     The new project that has kicked off. If you follow me anywhere you have probably already caught the soft launch. Deep breath and dive, let's say it out loud: Mistress Cassidy is now offering live cam shows with Chaturbate. Expect to see assorted affiliate promotional stuff added to the blog as soon as I have a chance to redecorate here. Can I share a thing? I am the boldest person I know, excuse my ego but it is a true statement. Anxiety, fear, worry, these feelings are not ones I am terribly familiar with and when they do pop up, (I am human I do feel these things occasionally) I tell them to sit back down and stay out of my way. This idea caused me some anxiety. It was suggested months ago, with much encouragement and solid reasoning behind it, by someone who's opinion I value greatly. They pointed out that I can stay in touch with my regulars no matter where I am. That I can grow my base, and reach subs everywhere. There may have been some ego feeding compliments too, ones appreciating the things one can see and ones that really feed me by recognizing the parts of me you can not. I was terribly resistant to the idea. But not for the reasons you might think. It had nothing to do with modesty, Mistress has no modesty. It was thoughts like, what does the optics on that look like? Does this negatively impact my brand? Real Dommes don't cam. Real Dommes do not take requests from boys. Real Dommes are all sexuality and no sex. I am Mistress Cassidy Cream. I have 20 years invested in the scene. I am a real domme. I am also an exhibitionist. I love an audience. I tease boys and I really like it. I work as a cam model now, ergo, real Dommes cam now. 

You can find me HERE most nights, I sign on around midnight EST and hang out until around 3 AM. 

Oh! I nearly forgot to share, and that's kind of cool. I nearly forgot because it feels like such a non-thing 99% of the time already. Mistress is 19 days cigarette-free. A week ago I tried to smoke a cigar, it was foul & gross, so it doesn't count at all. If it did, a week ago is a long time ago and clearly it didn't cause me to start back up again. 

VIRTUAL SPACES:
Chaturbate: mistresscassidycream
Phone: 207-730-9839
Text ONLY: 401-287-2877
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Fetlife: MistressCassidy
Twitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
KIK Groups: 
Pretty feet of Massachusetts & RI
RI Footlovers
Erotic Hypnosis with Mistress Cassidy Cream
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
Blog:
https://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/

Monday, October 8, 2018

Have You Missed Me?


How much have you missed me? Have you been pining away for me? Holding your breath desperately wishing I would return? And yet you didn't send me presents, or flowers for my new space. We really need to work on how you express your feelings. 
lolz
I've missed my blog so much. There's a half dozen, half completed entries stored organically in the left side lobe. This one and at least one other will make it out into a shareable form, the others will likely get lost in idea purgatory. Oh well, only the strong survive. 
I had every intention of focusing on my blog during my time in Richmond, the best of intentions. Do you see Samuel Jackson about to waste Flock of Seagulls every time you hear best of intentions too? Let's not talk about our intentions, best or otherwise, let's focus instead on what has happened.  
Right before I left Massachusetts a good friend in Virginia reached out to offer her condo to me. She has a commitment that has her traveling at this time too, and her place would be sitting empty if I didn't need it. Isn't it funny how things come together when one is on the right path? An affordable and comfortable space to use pretty much as long as I need, I can take my time looking for a space that meets all of my needs. The universe is so kind to me. 
My travel schedule was changed by factors beyond my control. The plan was to be back in Massachusetts October 5th, it is the 8th and here I am in Richmond. It inconvenienced me, but I am trying my best to remember what I said above, things work out when one is on the right path. It is so much easier to remember when the unexpected thing is happy surprise. It isn't too hard to accept being in Richmond longer than planned. I am thrilled to be home again. I am not sure when I will be returning to Massachusetts next, but it will be within the next few weeks. I believe I will be able to commit to dates within the next few days. If we had tentative plans during my return please know that I will be reaching out to you as soon as my plans are firm.  
I have 2 new projects I had planned on unveiling in this post today, but I think the official announcement is being pushed back to Thursday's Q&A post with slave allan. I may let it slip before then on Insta- you know how bad Mistress is with surprises. You do follow me on Instagram, right? 
The scene in Richmond is as different from Massachusetts as it was when I was here before. Submissives are reaching out tentatively. I am hearing similar stories from each. It has been a long time since a professional of note called Richmond home. Traveling dommes and would-be dommes pop up from time to time. The standards and ethics of each varying greatly. The subs here are reluctant to session at a hotel, and try harder for a public pre-session meeting. I'll indulge them until my permanent space is established. I am so happy to be home, and I am so looking forward to expanding the scene experience here. 
Oh and I did a thing five days ago. I wasn't planning on talking about it until the 10th, until it was a thing I did 7 days ago. See above and how horrible I am with surprises. I quit smoking. I feel much more confident this time is The Time. Five days no slipping up, no stolen drags off of friends smokes or 2 AM quiet my thoughts emergency smokes. I step away when I am around smokers. I accept it is my responsibility to not ask, not theirs to say no to me. And when my thoughts have been overwhelming, which sometimes they are, I remember all the other problem solving skills I have. Smoking was never really a problem solving tool, it was just its own problem that needed to be fed so I could deal with other things. I don't suspect I am going to talk about it much more after this post. I will probably announce that it has been a week on Facebook on Wednesday and that will likely be the last of it. 
Mistress has a full week ahead of her. There are promotional photos to take, and announcements to pen. Getting back on track with the pace I want to keep here. New local subbies to grace with my presence. And a return to Massachusetts to plan.  Find me on the platforms below and watch for the big announcements... 


VIRTUAL SPACES:
Phone: 207-730-9839
Text ONLY: 401-287-2877
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Fetlife: MistressCassidy
Twitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
KIK Groups: 
Pretty feet of Massachusetts & RI
RI Footlovers
Erotic Hypnosis with Mistress Cassidy Cream
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
Blog:
https://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/

Monday, May 7, 2018

Ch-Ch-Changes

I do so wish I had delayed the last post a little longer, but I had no reason to think we were going to jump in this new direction today.
A while back I mentioned I was considering no longer sessioning with new-to-me clients. I could link to that entry here, maybe I will edit & add that later. It's late, I'm nearly out of smokes and planning on quitting tomorrow, not tonight.
It's been on my mind for some time. It's a huge risk. I love huge risks. But truthfully I would have stood on this cliff for a really long time, maybe forever. I debated this already in the entry I am not linking to now. I do enjoy seeing new clients. New-to-me and total noobs are equally cool once they're in my dungeon. The never ending advertising, screening, and the god damn dick pics I have to weed through from wankers & time wasters to get to the actual subs, that's the part I could do without. That's the part that sucks my time, annoys me, puts me off my lunch and really, enough already.
I'm not doing it anymore. 
Effective immediately. 
Did I really scare you there? Don't panic you silly little mutes. I stood on this high risk cliff for over a month because I was certain there must be a way that I can avoid all that noise & bullshit and still see new submissives. It presented itself tonight.
Princess Gemini Enterprises has been debating what to do with our Wednesday parties for some time now. I talked them up in the last entry, the one I wished I had delayed posting. Every word was absolutely true, still true even. Omitted was the part that Wednesday parties as they were are unsustainable. The decision to drop our price and do one price for all was made earlier. That alone was a brilliant idea. Maybe that alone would have changed things, but that wouldn't have lead to me making the announcement I made above. Without being a part of the behind the scenes of a party, the way this ties together may not be readily apparent. Stay with me, you don't have to see the way it all ties together you can just trust me that it does.
We will now be hosting a $10 Wednesday party every week. The whole crew will not be necessarily be present every week. We will each choose which weeks we wish to be part of the party and we (or at least I) will do it based on what we have planned. At Wednesday parties I will no longer be engaging in performance scenes, I will be offering private, mini sessions. This will be the ONLY  route to a full, one on one session with me for the foreseeable future if we haven't sessioned together before. My tribute will be greatly reduced, as will the list of potential themes. Both to be determined shortly. You will contact me before Tuesday if you wish to be considered for a Wednesday session, we will have our time together and if I wish to see you again we will arrange a one on one at my dungeon. I will no longer need to do excessive screening as you are coming to a public venue. I will not require a deposit, as I will not be going out of my way to go to my dungeon for a sub who may get cold feet. I suppose as a woman on the internet, my inbox will remain a landing spot for unwanted, gross dick pics but now I can delete without opening! If I don't have an ad actively running and an email has an attachment, I will know you are just a random wanker & not a hopeful subbie sending a simple candid photo so I might know who I am sessioning with. You may enjoy the rest of the night at the party just like any other party, there will still be vendors, a DJ, and bar. Other crew members may opt to do performance scenes as they wish and Princess Gemini has several other great ideas that will be introduced over the next few weeks.

Tuesday, March 13, 2018

Mistress's Escape: Part 2

Can you see that glow? 

So Mistress spent 2 days in Richmond with her friends, and then jetted further south to spend time with someone special. Now Mistress isn't the kind of woman to kiss and tell, so you little voyeurs are going to be disappointed on that front. I mention it at all only because the traveling portion of my vacation greatly outpaced the visiting portions of my vacation. Over the course of 5 days, I had around 30 hours alone with my thoughts behind the wheel. I love time alone behind the wheel, I should pencil in these trips far more often. 
A couple things that I have held as hard limits as a professional dominatrix unexpectedly crossed my mind for reconsideration during my travel time. I am the first to acknowledge that as a professional I am a pretty conservative dominatrix. Safety, in all forms, is always a top priority for me. I don't just mean the safety of a specific act, I also mean the well-being and emotional safety of my submissives. I play in many settings, with people I have varying degrees of relationships with. The one on one professional scenes I engage in with clients are in many ways more intimate than any of the other settings. What a submissive client shares with me is often what they can not share with anyone else. I strive to create an atmosphere without judgement, and for this I am rewarded with candor and raw honesty from my clients. When their interests match my own, an amazing experience unfolds. I love this about my vocation. The flip side of this is when a scene ends, my clients return to their vanilla lives alone. I am available should my subs reach out for follow-up or aftercare; but I can not usually reach out to them. I can not compromise their vanilla life to inquire if they're experiencing sub drop, if their bruises are fading (or remaining) as they wished. And, I feel like most people don't consider this component of a professional dommes life, I can not reach out when I need aftercare. Tops drop too. I am a verbose, articulate person. After play with my partners or friends I can say I need feedback, I need cuddling, I need a sandwich and my needs are met. It's just not an option after sessions as a professional. I strayed off subject here a little bit from my intended subjects, but I'm not going to edit. 
Back on track now, what specifically crossed my mind for reconsideration was cold starts, and tapping out. For those who may be unfamiliar with those terms, a cold start is a scene that has been pre-negotiated and begins without further discussion when those engaging come together. Kidnapping scenes for example might be best played out with a cold start. Tapping out I imagine is a more recognizable term, using one's safe word, calling the scene, tapping out. Whatever one may call it, by tapping out I mean ending an activity because one has reached and perhaps breached their limit. 
I have never allowed cold starts in my professional sessions. I maintained that it simply was not a safe way to play with a stranger. At the start of a session I ask my subs about their health, I reiterate the interests they have shared with me previously and I establish my boundaries & expectations for our time together. It has worked quite well for nearly 20 years, but it is not without flaws. I decline scenes that I believe I would enjoy if they don't lend themselves to this ritual. Transitioning from welcoming, inquiring behavior into the actual scene can be challenging for me even after all these years and I have always recognized that most subs have a difficult time switching gears too. I am an experienced player. My negotiation skills are beyond reproach. Why am I denying myself experiences I know I will enjoy? Do I trust my screening process? Is my faith in my skill set false bravado? Am I doing what I have always done just because it's what I have always done? I pondered those questions for many miles. I am ready to expand my experiences, and I'm going to offer cold starts when appropriate. 
Tapping out. I instruct my submissives to use a traffic light colors for their safe words. Yellow if they need me to ease up, red if they need a full, immediate stop. I spend so much time on this pre-scene. To new subs I say, "As this is our first time playing together, for today only if you say stop, don't,or no I am going to pause. I am going to ask you for clarity, do you mean to say red or do you wish to continue? We will proceed from there accordingly." That's a lot of words. I have also always taken great pride in being able to say that the only subs who tap out in my scenes are those who have specifically asked to be pushed to their limits. I am now not only not proud of that statement, in truth I think I am a bit embarrassed by it. Subs are needy little creatures, they stumble in their nervousness and stutter when I demand they bare their soul to me. It is a rare day that I get a brave soul who can articulate that what they really want is to be taken beyond their limits, to be pushed to breaking down. Yet I do know, truly know, no one seeks out an experienced dominant because they wish to play with a kitten. Hard limits are hard limits, boundaries are for expanding. I am not a kitten.  I know the limits of my gear. My tools are very much an extension of myself in my hands. Have you seen me swing? Why do I give my subs safe words if I do not trust them to use them? I play with adults. I play with competent people who have worked up the nerve to seek out what they need. I am confident in my ability to comfort my subs and tend to their broken selves. Mistress has expanded her boundaries. I wish to be able to say that the majority of my submissives tap out when we play. 



Thursday, September 21, 2017

Mistress's Weekend Plans

Here it is Thursday afternoon and I realized that while my weekends are normally swamped with vanilla commitments this weekend is not! This weekend Mistress is going to a private fetish party and has ample time available for swinging my flogger at my studio too!  
While the party is a venue I am unfamiliar with and I am going with just one trusted friend, I am super excited to be having some fetish filled downtime. I have a pleasant hum of nervousness for meeting new people, and I high level of expectation for having a wonderful time. 
And I have time for weekend sessions! So many of my favorite subbies to play with have schedules that make weekends better than weekdays. It is so rare that I can accommodate the weekend requests, but this weekend I can. I wish I had taken a peek at my agenda sooner so I could have better shared my availability. But it's all good, my mute little subbies here will know I'm available once I hit "Publish".  
Let me wave my magic wand a bit and craft the perfect weekend, jump right in where you see you can be of service to me:
Early Friday I would like a pretty, slutty, little sissy in my studio. I need to play closet to decide what to wear and what toys to bring to the party. I'd like a girlfriend to help me decide. I'll put them in my pretty wigs and practice some extreme makeup ideas I'm contemplating for the party.
Saturday, while I won't be hungover, Mistress doesn't drink, I will be out late and perhaps not my most perkiest of selves. I need a good, working, service oriented slave to come serve me. I may very well wind up with a small afterparty at my studio if the new friends I meet are interesting enough. The floors may need to be scrubbed, and Mistress's feet will most definitely need servicing. And if you do a good job being my bitch, maybe I'll secure you to my doorway and lazily flog your bottom. 
Sunday. I need to recheck the forecast, but I think I saw that we'll have more rain on Sunday. Mistress loves rainy days. Sunday, rain or shine, Mistress would be down with a sensory session. Oh OK, Mistress is always down for a sensory session. Did I mention I picked up 3' wide plastic wrap for my playroom and a new blindfold? I have some new naughty ideas I want to try- ideas borrowed from others that I recently realized really spark my interest. Like mummified, blinded, scent identification. I want to tease a little cocooned subbie with my favorite scents, rewarding them for proper identification and lighting their ass on fire if they fail. 
Alright Mistress is going back to jamming to Shikira to get in the mood for tomorrow night.... if you are an established subbie & know my number, you have my permission to call today. If you are new subbie hoping to fit into my weekend you may email cassidycream15@gmail.com And should it come to pass that any of my subbies are going to be at the private party I mentioned, I expect that you will check in today so we can discuss my expectations for socializing outside of the studio. Assume that you can speak to me during my downtime without previous permission will not be met with kindness. I will assume that you are giving your consent to a public display of your worthlessness. 

Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Monday's List: On Tuesday

New! Sqweel Go USB Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator











My vanilla world has been a little full the past few days, so this week's Monday List took til Tuesday to exist. Oops. 
  • Available Days: I'm not sure if I have any days open this week. Again, my vanilla obligations are a bit more full than normal. I may have some time open on Thursday, the weekend looks promising too. 
  • New Toys: No toy shopping again this week 😞 But remember when I mentioned that affiliate program that didn't want to work with an adult website? If you're a new reader, don't worry about it. What you need to know now is that my blog & website were approved to promote a wicked cool adult store. The store is called "Love Honey". They offer a great points program, you get a # of points for each $ you spend and then you can apply those points to future orders.  And if you order from them using a link here  or on cassidycream.com  I will receive a small commission for the referral. Expect to see reviews of some cool toys soon.   I can't seem to put the link in correctly here.... 
    Making the right sex toy choice is easy thanks to real customer sex toy reviews at Lovehoney.com
  • Nail & toe polish: My toes are still a navy blue, a pedi is on the agenda later on this rainy day. I'm thinking Goth Black. My nails are a really sweet rose colored glitter, but I've misplaced the bottle & I have no idea what the name of the color is. 
  • New Projects: I have a couple of projects that I am super excited about. Neither is really ready for the big reveal yet though. At least one of them will be unveiled in the next few days. Come back & watch for it. 
  • Ebook Updates: Ya, nothing to see here. That line on my daily To Do List has remained un-checked for days & days now. 
  • Looking forward to (scene): I think, fingers crossed, I'm finally going to get around to taking some new photos. 
  • Looking forward to (vanilla): I did get some of the work I had planned for the garden done when the weather cooperated for 1 minute the other day. Looks like it's going to rain forever now. No pony riding, and no digging in the dirt until it stops. I may build a fire in the fireplace one last time tonight though, it's really not chilly enough to justify it but I'm going to miss it over the summer. 

Monday, April 17, 2017

Monday's List: April 17th

Mistress had a wonderful Easter with friends and family that I do not get to see nearly often enough. I hope my readers and subs had the same. I am refreshed and eager to swing my flogger soon.
A week ago I introduced a new, regular feature on this blog. The Monday List, last week's can be found here. The following is this week's list:

  • Available Days: I have time available Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday this week.
  • New Toys: Sadly I have not done any toy shopping. It's on the agenda to order a new ball gag, seems one of my favorites disappeared. 
  • Nail & toe polish: My pamper toes are sporting a navy blue, my fingernails are naked at the moment. Before the day is over they'll be "Crime of Passion" red. 
  • New Projects: I assigned Slave allan, a project that amused me last week. I must remember to follow up & see if he completed it satisfactorily. 
  • Ebook Updates: I'm excited to share that my ebook idea came off the "To Do Soon" list, and moved to the "Off to a Good Start" list. A slow start, just 450 words without editing, but a slow start is still a start. 
  • Looking forward to (scene): I have a couple of fun sessions scheduled for this week. If you ask nicely perhaps I'll share the details in an upcoming post. If you beg and whimper, maybe I'll post pictures too.  
  • Looking forward to (vanilla): Gardening! I planted about 150 bulbs last fall; daffodils, tulips, irises, gladiolas and saffron crocuses. They're all poking through the soil, and 2 yellow daffodils are just about ready to bloom. This week I'll be spring cleaning the veggie beds and making final decisions about what I'm planting this year. 





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Monday, April 10, 2017

These are a few of my favorite things...

Two of my very favorite things are Mondays and lists.
I read an article 20 or more years ago that said a disproportional percentage of people die on Mondays. The author speculated this was because a disproportionate number of people hate their jobs. It's been a long time, I don't recall fact checking the article. Maybe it was all hokum, but it stuck with me all the same. It seems like it could be true. Mondays have always been my favorite day of the week. I vowed to never work a job that I hate and ruin the best day of the week by dying on it some day while stuck in traffic.
Mondays are the best day of the week because it's a new start. Whatever went wrong last week is over, on Monday there is the potential for every thing to go perfectly. Monday is a new notebook and a freshly sharpen pencil.
Which brings me to one of my other favorite things. Lists. I love lists. I am mildly OCD. At the start of the day I find my list reassuring. This is what I am going to do, and I am prepared to do it. At the end of the day my list with a column of neat little checks is a reward. Even items that don't have a check, items that didn't get competed, they're no big deal. There they are ready to be transposed to tomorrow's list. Without a list those items would bounce around in my thoughts and keep me from sleeping until they were completed.
All of this was to say I have a new idea for this blog, an idea that combines my favorite things, a Monday List. Each Monday I will post a list of what's going on in the studio. So without further ado, the first Monday List.


  • Available Days: Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday
  • New toys: Pink bouncy seat that I believe I have posted a picture of recently
  • New Projects: Mistress is starting an ebook tentative release date May 1st
  • Looking forward to (scene): a session with a subbie that first contacted me over a decade ago, but was unable to follow through at the time. 
  • Looking forward to (vanilla): Trail time with my pony :)