Mistress Cassidy's Welcome Party Hosted by House of Femdom

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Q&A: Dungeons

slave allan asked: You mentioned your desire to have another dungeon in Richmond, Virginia. Would you describe your vision for this dungeon? Also if a reader would like to help with the dungeon, is there anything you would like in particular? 


There was a spelling error in your question allan, please be more attentive. Otherwise, perfect timing for this question. I am once again pro-actively looking for a permanent play space in Richmond. When the timeline didn't work out quite how I had planned for the first two months here, I had to make some adjustments to my plans. The condo my friend made available to me has been the perfect spot for contemplating my navel, regrouping after the drastic changes the past year has seen and planning what comes next. It is less than the perfect place for hosting BDSM sessions. 

I have finished the period of contemplation.
My vision is an attached garage. Attached is preferred to stand alone as I would rather not to have subs trekking across the backyard to reach the restroom. That is one of my only complaints about Safe Haven, that there wasn't a restroom in the space. A typical garage has the things I need, and is the right size. I need structure strong enough to attach hard points. Hard point, a hook or other tie off spot that can support the weight of an adult. At Safe Haven there is a simple, heavy duty chain hanging from the hard point. While it does its job, and one can clip off anywhere along the chain to accommodate people of any height, Mistress is tired of climbing a step ladder in heels. My space will have a pulley system. A pulley system will also allow for a sub to be restrained by his feet if I prefer. Short of having a sub stand on his head, I could not do that with the static chain at Safe Haven. I am all about inversion lately. There's an inversion table on my wishlist, and if a generous subbie doesn't bestow one on me soon, I do think it is going to be my Christmas present to myself.  I need a space that won't be damaged by having dozens of tie of spots along the walls & floors. My dungeon in Taunton had dozens of spots along the baseboard, a perk of being the home owner, I could make holes in the baseboard. I have missed those in the spaces I have utilized over the past 10 years. 
My vision for this space is cozy, warm and rustic. I want to hear the rain of the roof when I session on stormy days. I want it to be dark and cool, in August. 
One of my celebrity crushes is Alton Brown. He's smart, a little sadistic (have you watched Cut Throat Kitchen?) and he can cook, be still my heart. Anyway, back on Good Eats, he had great disdain for items he called uni-taskers. I too strongly dislike things that take up space and can only do one job. My space has to be a multitasker like me. It will be my space to record and broadcast from, and it will lend itself to photo shoots. It is my intention to make it available on Kink B&B (yes, that's a thing! How cool is that?) when I am in New England.  It will be a cozy space for small parties. And as I network here, I will make the space available to other professionals and players in the scene. 
There are several ways friends and fans can contribute if they wish. I have mentioned before that many of my pieces were destroyed while in storage when we moved from Virginia back to Massachusetts. The pieces acquired more recently were either co-owned with or belong to my ex. In an effort to minimize conflict, I relinquished any claim to co-owned items. I am reinvesting as quickly as I can in my own collection, but between moving, and my vanilla responsibilities, my savings and budget are screaming their safe words and begging me to have mercy.  So if you see a piece on my wishlist that you would love to explore with me, I will show my gratitude with an experience you will never forget. When the space is found, the goal is to start the New Year in this new space, I will need help with moving. There will be hardware to install, and heavy things to lift; I am not a damsel but these are skills not in my wheelhouse. Returning to Massachusetts for a visit, as I have tried to plan too many times now, would quiet my savings and budget quite nicely, and one can contribute to that here.  In the spring I will also need a hand in Massachusetts packing what is left of my belongings. As always though, friends support their friends' projects. The best way to do that is to comment, share, and echo my promotions where ever it is appropriate and safe for you to do so. 

Where to Find Mistress Cassidy this Week

Let it be known that Mistress is sitting at the keys on Sunday evening updating my schedule, writing entries and purring with happiness after the most wonderful weekend in recent memory. Wednesday, remember I have explained this before My weekend begins on Wednesdays, saw me in the studio with my good friend Lunchbagg. He is an aspiring musician, and host of a fun podcast hosted in Providence. Expect some cross-promoting links to be posted in another entry this week. Lunch and his crew are muggles, but very open to learning about the scene. Mistress may have turned one into an explorer. I have a new goal list for August, all about making moving in September go as smoothly as possible and Thursday some time was invested in those projects. Friday I saw a new subbie I suspect I will see again. And of course Saturday was spent at Twizted Acres, where for the first time in months nearly all of the regulars were in attendance. There were a few notable exceptions, it is still summer and kinksters take vacations too. I missed my friend who reenacts the Buffalo Bill scene when Goodbye Horses plays on my playlist, and his pretty, energetic subbie. I missed Mistress X and our late night chats. My favorite glass artist and her smoke show partner were not able to attend. I was hoping a certain newbie would be returning this week, but sadly she did not. It is unfortunate that this was the week they missed, because the house was jumping all night. I am pretty sure that every body this week had a scene of significance in the course of the night. Today I napped, and prepped for my most favorite day of the week; Monday. And shh, Mistress tries not to kiss and tell so don't go telling people about this; but through all of this wonderfulness, at the most perfect moments and completely unexpectedly my phone would ping and I would find my top's smiling face and thoughtful messages waiting for me. I suspect my decompression, my drop in adrenaline will be a gentle slope this week and  I will navigate life in the vanilla world smoothly until I am back in my real world next.

A wonderful night at Twizted Acres with My Hazey July 2018

On to the purpose of this post, where to find Mistress this week. 

Monday: Mistress will be far too busy with something far too special to have time for you. Feel free to email me how much you miss me. 

Tuesday: Mistress will be at Safe Haven. The day is filling in quickly, but I do still have some availability. 

Wednesday: Again I will be at Safe Haven, I may have time for you if you're quick to schedule. 

Thursday: Foot party day! Mistress and several of her most awesome friends will be hosting a small, invite only cwnm foot worshiping party on Thursday. Is that a newb in the back asking what a cwnm is? Clothed woman, naked male; see you learned a new thing you're less of a newb now. Which of my awesome friends will be there? We shall see for sure on Thursday, but my Hazey, Mistress Dahlia, Mistress Liberty, Mistress X (which is not her scene name, it's the moniker I gave her until I can verify that her personal & professional scene name are the same), Miss Sunshyne and the lovely Keypup have all expressed a hope that they will be there. I will edit with the Fetlife event page once said Fetlife event page has been created. If you wish for an invite do not wait for the event page to be created, email me now cassidycream15@gmail.com. There is a hard cap on guests and again guests are vetted, you must give me enough time to do so. Also of note, on the day Mistress hosts a theme party that theme is available for private, intro sessions of 20 minutes at a special rate. 

Friday: Mistress will be at Safe Haven performing at House of Pain's Fire and Ice party. I am so excited for this event. Secret sharing, Mistress has a great fondness both in scenes and privately for ice play. August 10th is sure to be plenty hot enough for an amazing ice scene and I am flipping through my contacts looking for the right body to create this scene with.

Saturday: You know where I will be on Saturday, right? Where is Mistress nearly every Saturday. Hanging with the coolest of the cool kids at Twizted Acres. Do you want to be a cool kid? I may entertain bringing a guest, contact soon if you wish to be considered. 

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Happy Summer Solstice

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Girls Girls Girls

A few months back I did a Q&A with slave allan that included a question about sessioning with women. At the time I replied, honestly, I had barely any experience sessioning with women. As a professional offering one on one sessions, I simply rarely had inquiries from women. Over the years I contemplated why that was many times. Is it that women do not frequent the places I advertise? Is it that my ads are not welcoming to women? Is it that women are simply not inclined to see a professional dominatrix? I suspect all of those play a part. It has always bothered me. It isn't about who I am most attracted to, if that were the driving force behind the sessions I agree to I would only see subs who have a mouth like David Bowie's or bear a striking resemblance Maggie Gyllenhaal. My dissatisfaction about not sessioning with women was that I know I offer an amazing experience, and I wished to share that with those of my gender too.

Hmm, these all look like female people to me. There are many things I love about working for Princess Gemini Enterprises. One of the things I love the most is that we are an adult company owned  by a woman. Now in fairness, Mista_Jay, Princess Gemini's husband & partner does an incredible amount of work to make our parties perfect too, but it is Gemini who is in the spotlight. It is Gemini who is out, loud and proud, with no apologies, owning that this is her party literally & figuratively. Another thing I love is that our core staff is three men, seven women. That ratio extends out to our contractors and even our vendors. We are a pro-woman, body positive, consent driven, adult business. I don't know how much time you've spent in the adult industry, but in the corners I've visited we are a rarity. 

At the risk of sounding a little new age woo-hoo-y, I believe our guests can feel that the energy of our parties and events is different. I believe the reason I average four scenes with women for every one with a man at our events is because of this different vibe we put off. I love that at every event I am tapped by woman after woman, sometimes shyly, sometimes boldly, asking if I can make some time to flog them. I love that after every event I have emails and texts from the women I have scened with offering feedback, asking question, and thanking me again for the experience I helped them have. Now that I have found the platform to speak to a female audience, women contact me for private sessions now too. Still not nearly at the rate men do, but it's a start. 

We have event coming up this Friday that I am so excited about...

It is for our crew and select female guests. I hope that it is screaming success and becomes a regular event. Our team is filled with women with big personalities, there is nothing snarky in that observation and I am not an exception to it. We have some really amazing projects just kicking off. We have each been keeping an incredibly hectic schedule, and we know it is not easing up anytime soon.  I have had some major upheavals & changes in my vanilla world recently. Our emotions are sometimes very close to the surface and sometimes they bubble right over too. I am not making any apologies for that, our emotional investment in Princess Gemini Enterprises is a testament to how much we believe in our vision. The Girls Night Sleepover should prove to be a chance to move past the minor but jarring bumps we have hit a few times and to kick off spring ready for the best party in New England to be better than ever and go further than before. 

Mistress's Weekend Plans

Here it is Thursday afternoon and I realized that while my weekends are normally swamped with vanilla commitments this weekend is not! This weekend Mistress is going to a private fetish party and has ample time available for swinging my flogger at my studio too!  

While the party is a venue I am unfamiliar with and I am going with just one trusted friend, I am super excited to be having some fetish filled downtime. I have a pleasant hum of nervousness for meeting new people, and I high level of expectation for having a wonderful time. 

And I have time for weekend sessions! So many of my favorite subbies to play with have schedules that make weekends better than weekdays. It is so rare that I can accommodate the weekend requests, but this weekend I can. I wish I had taken a peek at my agenda sooner so I could have better shared my availability. But it's all good, my mute little subbies here will know I'm available once I hit "Publish".  

Let me wave my magic wand a bit and craft the perfect weekend, jump right in where you see you can be of service to me:

Early Friday I would like a pretty, slutty, little sissy in my studio. I need to play closet to decide what to wear and what toys to bring to the party. I'd like a girlfriend to help me decide. I'll put them in my pretty wigs and practice some extreme makeup ideas I'm contemplating for the party.

Saturday, while I won't be hungover, Mistress doesn't drink, I will be out late and perhaps not my most perkiest of selves. I need a good, working, service oriented slave to come serve me. I may very well wind up with a small afterparty at my studio if the new friends I meet are interesting enough. The floors may need to be scrubbed, and Mistress's feet will most definitely need servicing. And if you do a good job being my bitch, maybe I'll secure you to my doorway and lazily flog your bottom. 

Sunday. I need to recheck the forecast, but I think I saw that we'll have more rain on Sunday. Mistress loves rainy days. Sunday, rain or shine, Mistress would be down with a sensory session. Oh OK, Mistress is always down for a sensory session. Did I mention I picked up 3' wide plastic wrap for my playroom and a new blindfold? I have some new naughty ideas I want to try- ideas borrowed from others that I recently realized really spark my interest. Like mummified, blinded, scent identification. I want to tease a little cocooned subbie with my favorite scents, rewarding them for proper identification and lighting their ass on fire if they fail. 

Alright Mistress is going back to jamming to Shikira to get in the mood for tomorrow night.... if you are an established subbie & know my number, you have my permission to call today. If you are new subbie hoping to fit into my weekend you may email cassidycream15@gmail.com And should it come to pass that any of my subbies are going to be at the private party I mentioned, I expect that you will check in today so we can discuss my expectations for socializing outside of the studio. Assume that you can speak to me during my downtime without previous permission will not be met with kindness. I will assume that you are giving your consent to a public display of your worthlessness. 

Upcoming Event: Make-up Party for Sissy & CD Subbies

So let's try this again.
Mistress is hosting an in-person, beauty and make-up party. The featured products are from a well known, established, reputable, direct sales company. Think ***** ladies, think ***** calling, you know which company it is. I feel like they may not appreciate being advertised on an adult blog by name.
There will be samples to try, snacks, and demonstrations of several make-up techniques. All guests will leave with a swag bag of samples. Some items will be available for sale at the event, and orders can be placed with me with direct shipping to you or discreet pick-up from me if you prefer.

When: Tuesday June 13th 5pm-8pm
Where: Mistress's Studio- address disclosed when you confirm your spot
Cost: $50 for new sub friends, free for my ongoing subbies.  Plus anything you purchase.
* want to come for free? Book a session before the June 12th*
Dress Code: Vanilla to the door. I would prefer that everyone be dressed femme, and a changing area will be available.

I am limiting the guest list to 6 for this first event, to ensure I have enough time to assist each of my guests with any questions they may have. I hope this will be a regular event at my playspace this summer, so if this date doesn't work for you drop me a line & I will add you to my events mailing list.

Seats are going quickly, reserve your with an email to cassidycream15@gmail.com

Wish you could come but not from my area? Mistress is also offering phone and online consultations, and a 10% discount on orders through my estore, for $20. I will walk you through choosing the best skincare and make-up products for you and share some tips for creating your best look.

Upcoming Event for Local CD Subbies

I tried to copy & paste directly from my Fetlife event. Seems that made the formatting all wonky. Consider this a placeholder until I can write a fresh copy for the blog.  Date & Time:in 12 days	Tuesday, June 13, 2017 · 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Location:	Mistress Cassidy's Play Studio disclosed when you reserve your seat
Cost:	$50 to reserve your spot
Dress code:	Vanilla to the door, changing area available- prefer X-dressing subs to be dressed as femme
Description:	In addition to being a professional dominatrix, Mistress Cassidy is an independent beauty consultant with a well known, direct sales, make-up company. Think great catalogs, think ** ladies and ** calling and you'll know what company I mean. I feel like they may not fully appreciate being advertised on a fetish site. Anyway- I am hosting a small get together for some of my regular x-dressing subbies and I have room for some new friends too. The guest list will be limited to 6, to ensure I have enough time to give each guest a consultation. Bring the make-up & beauty products you use currently and I will help you decide which of my products will compliment what you already use. Snacks & refreshments will be served, and all guests will leave with a swag bag of samples and products. Want me to waive the fee for you? Book a session with me before the date and I'll move you to the VIP guest list. Also free phone and online consultations are available for my long distance subbie friends