Monday: May 8th 2017

It's a week into May, and so far, it's getting a mixed review from me. While it hasn't been utterly dead in the studio, it has been slower than I would like. I have been clicking away at the keyboard. I've made steady and significant progress on several projects, but I haven't completed one yet. The garden is exploding with flowers from all the rain, while the riding ring  is ankle deep mud. Over all I suppose all is well, but there is definitely room for improvement. 

Let's get on with the list. 

• New Toys: It's been a few weeks since I mentioned picking this up, I finally had a chance to try it out. (The picture will be at the bottom. I can't seem to post it here without messing up the formatting.) It's the pink seat bouncy seat with a built in, vibrating, oh I hate to be vulgar but I'm at a loss for a delicate term for it. The pink seat with the big vibrating cock. There just say it and move on. It came from Love Honey, which you will find the link to right over there----> on the sidebar, and if you order through that link I will get a little commission. I forget the exact price, but it was under $40 and my order qualified for free shipping. The shipping was lightning fast, and the packaging was completely discreet. Just another big brown box like my mail carrier is use to dropping on my doorstep every few days. It has to be blown up of course, I don't know if you could affix a bicycle pump to the valve. I know if you are me you can hand it off to a slutty sissy submissive (try saying that 3 times fast), and promise them they can be the first to try it out if they blow it up. I think most ladies would find the toy to be a great size, and the range of vibration to be pretty standard. My slutty sissy submissives though will probably think it looks a bit too small and then find it is actually a bit too big when they try to use it. Covered with latex and plenty of lube, with patience it'll fit.Because it's a seat, and we had it set up on the floor, gravity wanted to challenge patience and have it slide home faster. Setting it up on the edge of a bed may make it easier to use, and I suspect for taller than average subs, it would be much more comfortable on a surface higher than the floor. I'm very happy with the purchase. There are certainly better, oh here we go again with the vulgarity, there are better fucking machines on the market. They sell for significantly more than $40 bucks. This was inexpensive, seems very durable, and it is easy to clean. If one doesn't have a private playroom where one can display big pink cocks on a bouncy chair, inflating and deflating for storing after each use might become a pain in the ass. But in my studio it can sit right in the middle of my toy room. 
• Nails & Toes: They're naked again. I have a professional mani & pedi scheduled later this week. 
• New Projects: I believe I will be unveiling the project I've been fine-tuning this week. The next entry should be the big announcement and I think the next entry will be on Wednesday. Another project that really needs to go on the To Do List, is creating an email sign-up gadget. Then you'd be notified whenever there was a new post or project. 
• Looking Forward To (Scene): I believe I am going to do a double Mistress scene with a very good friend, a talented life style player I've been trying to convince to join me in sessions for years, later in the month. For now it is a one time engagement, but my fingers are crossed that she'll love it and regularly join me in the dungeon. 
• Looking Forward To (Vanilla): Things are relatively quiet in my vanilla life. It's almost, but not quite time to schedule the first camping trip of the season. Almost but not quite time to open the pool for the summer. 

And there it is in all it's vulgar glory. 

Monday's List: On Tuesday

My vanilla world has been a little full the past few days, so this week's Monday List took til Tuesday to exist. Oops. 

• Available Days: I'm not sure if I have any days open this week. Again, my vanilla obligations are a bit more full than normal. I may have some time open on Thursday, the weekend looks promising too. 
• New Toys: No toy shopping again this week 😞 But remember when I mentioned that affiliate program that didn't want to work with an adult website? If you're a new reader, don't worry about it. What you need to know now is that my blog & website were approved to promote a wicked cool adult store. The store is called "Love Honey". They offer a great points program, you get a # of points for each $ you spend and then you can apply those points to future orders.  And if you order from them using a link here  or on cassidycream.com  I will receive a small commission for the referral. Expect to see reviews of some cool toys soon.   I can't seem to put the link in correctly here.... 
  Making the right sex toy choice is easy thanks to real customer sex toy reviews at Lovehoney.com
• Nail & toe polish: My toes are still a navy blue, a pedi is on the agenda later on this rainy day. I'm thinking Goth Black. My nails are a really sweet rose colored glitter, but I've misplaced the bottle & I have no idea what the name of the color is. 
• New Projects: I have a couple of projects that I am super excited about. Neither is really ready for the big reveal yet though. At least one of them will be unveiled in the next few days. Come back & watch for it. 
• Ebook Updates: Ya, nothing to see here. That line on my daily To Do List has remained un-checked for days & days now. 
• Looking forward to (scene): I think, fingers crossed, I'm finally going to get around to taking some new photos. 
• Looking forward to (vanilla): I did get some of the work I had planned for the garden done when the weather cooperated for 1 minute the other day. Looks like it's going to rain forever now. No pony riding, and no digging in the dirt until it stops. I may build a fire in the fireplace one last time tonight though, it's really not chilly enough to justify it but I'm going to miss it over the summer. 

Timing is a funny thing sometimes.
Before writing the last post about my intention to begin offering online & distance training, I set a task for My secretary slave. His task was to find 3 adult websites that have affiliate marketing programs. I had found one on my own that I was excited to work with, a company that I use often for adult items. I had hoped to do regular reviews of their products here in my blog. You'll notice I'm not referring to them by name. When I was nearly finished with their application process, their terms of agreement doc was the last to check off on & submit. They don't allow adult websites & blogs to market their products. A company that specializes in dildos & cock rings, doesn't want to be associated with adult websites. Go figure.
Anyway, back to the story. I didn't give him parameters. I didn't say, I'm not interested in sketchy websites selling penis enlargement supplements, for example. I'm not at all interested in those programs of course, but it was a test. Would he, after several months of online communication, know that I am only interested in reputable companies offering quality products. Products I would honestly be interested in trying out and if happy with, would be confident in suggesting them to my subs & readers.
I'm happy to say he passed. He completed the task before the deadline & sent companies that I will likely feature here & on my website Cassidy Cream  in the future. One in particular stood out, so I choose to investigate that one further first.
And this is it. Adult toys that can be remotely controlled from anywhere with a phone app. Considering my intention to begin offering distance training, this is exactly what I need that I didn't know existed. I am absolutely stoked by the idea of sending my online subs out into the real world, stuffed & plugged under their vanilla garments, and that I can, at my whim, start their bottoms humming. I am a safety conscious Domme, I would of course know their schedule well enough to not have them distracted while driving or operating dangerous equipment; but I would so set them to throb while they were at a pub after work or while they went for their afternoon jog.
Use the link above if you wish to purchase a toy for yourself, use this link if you'd like to gift Me with something fun:  https://www.lovense.com/wish-list/zxfm