Ready for the Big Announcement?

I said two weeks ago something to the effect of I was reclaiming control of all things. I said last week I would be nailing down dates for my trip north and announcing them Monday. Do you remember? Your word is your wand. That is a mantra from my favorite book. I read it when I was 19, it changed the path of my life. I have purchased about 50 copies of it since then. I sent a copy to Mistress Dahlia just last week. How was I nailing down dates by Monday? I had no idea, but I said it out loud. Your word is your wand. I wrote it down too. Words yield to me. New age mumbo-jumbo, energy manifested, magic & alchemy, blue smoke & mirrors, hard work and goal setting. Who cares which one brings things to fruition? I do them all. Well except smoke, go me.

Have you missed me? How much? I am a teenage boy in the back seat of a car, prove it.

I am silly with excitement. In about 24 hours, Mistress Cassidy is not afraid of some dusting of snow, please stop telling me about it, in 24 hours Mistress Cassidy is jetting north.

It is going to be a whirlwind trip. It hurts to say this, there will be no time for catching up and spending time with friends. Thank you for understanding.

This is the official kick-off of all the other projects I have been hinting at and teasing about for months. Mistress Dahlia and I will be meeting with a venue to start planning our parties. We are meeting with a producer to begin a series of BDSM films; tasteful, sexy, part educational, part erotica. I am also going to begin a series of hypnosis videos. Again reflecting my tastes, and my point of view, they will be tasteful erotica. Do I need to pause here? Is that not commonly known information? My friends and fans know that once upon a time in the vanilla world I was a clinical hypnotherapist, right? Well if you missed it, I was. I have kept my skill set in working order by using it in BDSM sessions, even though I stopped offering my services professionally a decade ago. I have said it before, when asked what my favorites scenes are, I have no go-to reply. I love what I do, all of it. I do however go through cycles of a thing repeating in sessions. Without any obvious rhyme or reason, I will have a string of requests for a specific theme. When this happens, I find myself remembering and expanding my love for that thing. Hypnosis is one that cycles more frequently. I love hypnosis. It lends itself to nearly all of the play I engage in. Hypnosis is a multitasker, like me. The flip side is hypnosis is a thing that takes a bit more energy than average from me. There is more communication with the sub before the session, so that I might hear exactly what their goals and expectations are.  I write a new script for each session, they're all unique. Then in the session itself, I spend around 45 minutes talking continuously to someone who seems to be asleep. The energy exchanged during a hypnosis session is one directional for most of the time together. But then, when the sub has successfully reached their goals, then the energy rushes back to me in their excitement for having had the experience they wanted. Sessions that include hypnosis are a completely different feeling than those that do not. I am so excited to see what happens when I release videos of it.
We have a list, of course we have a list, of many themes for both the hypnosis and the femdomme videos. Narrowing down which ones should be done first will be the hardest part. Leave a comment or message me what you would like to see, if it happens to be on the list already, I'll move it up one spot.

There will be content added to the fan club portion of Chaturbate and I will be signing in when I can. Quite possibly more than my normal schedule, as I will be spending pretty much zero time pretending to be a muggle.

Finally, yes there will be time for private sessions. I planned my schedule to allow for a handful of private sessions. I will not have enough appointments to see everyone this trip, but I couldn't in good conscious say no sessions at all after making my subbies wait so long. Priority scheduling will be given to exhibitionist subbies. I have several, gorgeous and versatile bottoms to play with on film already. I want variety though, and I want to maximize my time in the studio. I want to be exhausted when I close out the day. There may be an opportunity for sessions not on film, but I can not promise that at this time. In any case, if you want to spend time with me during this trip, the time to get in touch is right now.

And you do want to spend time with me, don't you?

For those that stay to the very end of the credits, I love leaving a message for you here. Want to hear a secret? There is another project or two still on the drawing board, announcements to happen sometime after my birthday... I do so love keeping you waiting. 

Teasers... with Pictures

I had a glorious weekend. Friday was Princess Gemini's Bunny Ball in Providence. The continued uncertainty of the weather in New England seemed to lead to a smaller crowd than our average Friday. But it's all good, most of my favorite people were there. Including this little smoke show, my stylist Miss Hazey

She wasn't what I was looking for, I put out an ad specifically looking for a gay, male stylist. Forgive my sexism here, but Mistress felt she needed a new dude friend who I would know with absolute certainty wasn't trying to get in my panties. And she is far younger than Mistress would normally be inclined to have much faith in. I love hanging out with twenty-somethings at parties. I especially love when I outlast them on the dance floor & they stare in awe when I say I do this 2-4 nights a week. But let's be honest,  the bubble-gum crowd isn't noted for their dedication or loyalty. Mistress needs to depend on her stylist. I need to know they'll remember the spare stockings, polish & quick dry for a touch up, I need to know they'll be on time and that they'll leave their noise & drama at home. But the little minx was persistent. She simply kept asking for a chance while simultaneously there was a distinct lack of 30-something gay stylist tripping over themselves to be my new bestie. Once I was quiet enough to hear, the universe really was trying to tell me this is the one. She's such a cutie. She is timely. A wee bit of noise & drama, but nothing Mistress can't correct with a low wattage zap collar. Two silly things cinched it. She wears a necklace that nearly matches my own. I have worn an octopus gripping a hematite globe for nearly 20 years now, I believe she said she's been rocking her talon gripped orb for 6. The other is that she identified herself as a "fisherman", lolz. Mistress makes no apologies for her super sized ego that needs constant feeding. How did exotic dancer Cassidy find the courage to be naked in a room full of strangers? How does Mistress Cassidy command the respect and admiration of her subbies & strangers? By knowing, at all times, I am the baddest bitch you will ever meet. There is little to no chance that I am ever going to share my body with you, but you will give me your soul and you will never, ever forget me. That's what my ego looks like, and it's maintenance requires constant vigilance. My Miss Hazey said to me in one of our first conversations, with her eyelashes flashing at me & the hand motions to go with the story, "I'm an ego-maniac. I love constant validation. So I am a fisherman. I bait the hook and just toss it out there. Do I look pretty in this color? Do you love my shoes? And then I reel that compliment right in.". Yes, that was the moment I recognized I found the right stylist. Now the little tease has Mistress all a flutter at our parties & business planning meetings. She 'submits' to my floggings at parties so she can torment me with that ass. She makes Mistress glow, and isn't that the job of a stylist?

Ahem
Let's not blow up that ego too quickly. She has her short-comings, minor as they are. Does she video call me at 10a, when she knows damn well my head only kissed my pillow 3 hours before? Yes she does. Does she lack a filter and an understanding of that what's appropriate for the dance floor is not appropriate for planning meetings? When the woman who will tag her metamor (poly term, it means partner of one's partner) on her personal facebook with a threat of sending our favorite sadist an invitation to beat her ass and tag her mother in the pictures of it, tells you that you lack a filter that's saying something.

I adore her though.

She understands Tops need aftercare sometimes too

Truly from the bottom of my icy heart, I just love her.

I have plans for her. Watch for the announcement, it'll be a big one.

New Projects!

Mistress has a bunch of new projects kicking off next week, and I so want to share them with my mute friends here but I'm not quite ready for that....
Hmm- what can I share?
I can share that I am really enjoying the new fetish/social network being offered HERE. While there aren't many members yet, that's kind of nice. Meet the other first members without having too many groups, blogs & chatting to distract you.
I can share that I am actively looking for subs interested in being filmed. Must be willing to sign a model release and provide a copy of your ID, but face obscured is A-OK with me.
And I can share that I am officially adding ASMR to my repertoire. I have a short shopping list of items I'd like to play with, but  I know I could have an interesting ASMR session working with what I have already on hand.
Three posts in one week. Is that a sign of what to expect as the seasons change? I don't know, it might be. Hold your breath and stayed tuned.

Mistress Went Shopping!

How much does Mistress love Amazon? No in & out of the heat, no lines, and no muggles. From the comfort of my laptop, with a cold Diet Pepsi and a burning smoke, I can just click what I want and the postman brings it to my doorstep. I love Amazon and I love my mail carrier.
What did Mistress buy? I bought fun new toys for my good little subbies of course....

A doggie mask for puppy play like I mentioned recently. The eye mask is detachable so good puppies may be allowed to watch Mistress from their cage.

A new ball gag with attached nipple clamps. My ball gag went missing recently. Next subbie is going to pay with stretched nipples for whoever it was that pocketed a keepsake from Mistress. 

A waterproof, purple, Hatchi knock off. I have an original, corded Hatchi. Great tool, but it's so loud and limited with its cord. It is also harder to clean. This pretty little toy has one continuous silicon outer layer, and no nooks,and crannies to worry about.

And what I am most excited about: WIGS! It was so hard to narrow it down to just 3. There's 6 more in my shopping cart for the next time I go on a shopping spree. I opted for these two similar ones to compare brands. Each line has several more I plan on purchasing. 

And the last one is just for fun. It's not particularly high quality, and I don't expect it to last. But isn't it adorable? 

Upcoming Event: Make-up Party for Sissy & CD Subbies

So let's try this again.
Mistress is hosting an in-person, beauty and make-up party. The featured products are from a well known, established, reputable, direct sales company. Think ***** ladies, think ***** calling, you know which company it is. I feel like they may not appreciate being advertised on an adult blog by name.
There will be samples to try, snacks, and demonstrations of several make-up techniques. All guests will leave with a swag bag of samples. Some items will be available for sale at the event, and orders can be placed with me with direct shipping to you or discreet pick-up from me if you prefer.

When: Tuesday June 13th 5pm-8pm
Where: Mistress's Studio- address disclosed when you confirm your spot
Cost: $50 for new sub friends, free for my ongoing subbies.  Plus anything you purchase.
* want to come for free? Book a session before the June 12th*
Dress Code: Vanilla to the door. I would prefer that everyone be dressed femme, and a changing area will be available.

I am limiting the guest list to 6 for this first event, to ensure I have enough time to assist each of my guests with any questions they may have. I hope this will be a regular event at my playspace this summer, so if this date doesn't work for you drop me a line & I will add you to my events mailing list.

Seats are going quickly, reserve your with an email to cassidycream15@gmail.com

Wish you could come but not from my area? Mistress is also offering phone and online consultations, and a 10% discount on orders through my estore, for $20. I will walk you through choosing the best skincare and make-up products for you and share some tips for creating your best look.