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Saturday, April 28, 2018

Mistress Desperately Needs...


Another vacation.
No, that's not where this was going. I have way too many irons in the fire to escape just yet.
What I actually need is a multi-talented submissive or perhaps several talented submissives.
I need a web designer, professional not hobbyist, preferably with adult content experience. Someone contacted me months ago, they were from North Carolina specifically.I managed to misplace their contact info in the course of the never ending move. I don't know if they follow my blog, but if you're a web designer from NC I'm probably talking about you & you should contact me asap, please. If you're a designer from someplace other than NC that's OK too, contact me.
I also need help with promoting and maintaining my social media accounts. I need help launching a Youtube channel, a Patreon campaign and similar projects. I'd like to find someone interested in doing guest posts on my blog. This can be a one-off or an ongoing project.
I will gladly trade time under my floggers for any of these services and some have the potential to become compensated arrangements.

Thursday, April 26, 2018

Catch Me if You Can


Busy season has officially begun, hooray! My calendar is filling up nicely. I am going to the best events, meeting the coolest people and starting a bunch of projects that I am super excited about. Watch for updates on said cool projects soon, but in the mean time you can find me at the following events. You must have a Fetlife account to access the links, but it's super easy to set up an account and if you fancy yourself part of the scene you really need to have a Fetlife account.

Girls Only Sleepover with Princess-Geminihttps://fetlife.com/events/657843

Friday, April 27, 2018 · 3:00 PM –
Saturday, April 28, 2018 ·12:00 PM 

Flowerween - Chains Galore!https://fetlife.com/events/654579
Saturday, April 28, 2018 · 7:00 PM – 2:00 AM
2nd Annual Aprilweenhttps://fetlife.com/events/651585
Saturday, April 28, 2018 · 8:00 PM – 3:00 AM

Oh did you notice I have myself committed to two events on the same day and a third that overlaps the other two? I wasn't playing when I said it was busy season. 

Sunday April 29th 
Private sessions available in my private, central Mass, dungeon. 
Monday April 30th 
Traveling to Newport RI to play tourist for the day with a couple girlfriends. Would welcome an indulgent subbie companion to help keep us amused. 

Stoughton Munch
Wednesday, May 02, 2018 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM 
https://fetlife.com/events/657145
Princess Gemini's: May the 4th Be With You
Friday, May 04, 2018 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
https://fetlife.com/events/658175
Princess-Gemini presents Purgatory Swingers & Fetish Newbie night
Wednesday, May 09, 2018 · 9:00 PM – 1:00 AM
https://fetlife.com/events/657854
Princess-Gemini's Providence Munch Free Video Game Arcade BAR
Wednesday, May 16, 2018 · 8:00 PM –11:00 PM
There are so many more events that need to be added here but Mistress is tired and still lacks a media manager. Come out to one of the weekend's parties, and watch this space for updates.
Eye Candy to make sure you make it all the way til the end of the post. I have the very best life and the very best job on the planet 

VIRTUAL SPACES:
Fetlife.com: MistressCassidy
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Twitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
TEXT ONLY: 401-287-2877
don't try to call me at that number, it is for text ONLY
and of course my currently defunct website www.cassidycream.com that I desperately need the assistance of web designer to get back up.


Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Girls Girls Girls

A few months back I did a Q&A with slave allan that included a question about sessioning with women. At the time I replied, honestly, I had barely any experience sessioning with women. As a professional offering one on one sessions, I simply rarely had inquiries from women. Over the years I contemplated why that was many times. Is it that women do not frequent the places I advertise? Is it that my ads are not welcoming to women? Is it that women are simply not inclined to see a professional dominatrix? I suspect all of those play a part. It has always bothered me. It isn't about who I am most attracted to, if that were the driving force behind the sessions I agree to I would only see subs who have a mouth like David Bowie's or bear a striking resemblance Maggie Gyllenhaal. My dissatisfaction about not sessioning with women was that I know I offer an amazing experience, and I wished to share that with those of my gender too.








Hmm, these all look like female people to me. There are many things I love about working for Princess Gemini Enterprises. One of the things I love the most is that we are an adult company owned  by a woman. Now in fairness, Mista_Jay, Princess Gemini's husband & partner does an incredible amount of work to make our parties perfect too, but it is Gemini who is in the spotlight. It is Gemini who is out, loud and proud, with no apologies, owning that this is her party literally & figuratively. Another thing I love is that our core staff is three men, seven women. That ratio extends out to our contractors and even our vendors. We are a pro-woman, body positive, consent driven, adult business. I don't know how much time you've spent in the adult industry, but in the corners I've visited we are a rarity. 
At the risk of sounding a little new age woo-hoo-y, I believe our guests can feel that the energy of our parties and events is different. I believe the reason I average four scenes with women for every one with a man at our events is because of this different vibe we put off. I love that at every event I am tapped by woman after woman, sometimes shyly, sometimes boldly, asking if I can make some time to flog them. I love that after every event I have emails and texts from the women I have scened with offering feedback, asking question, and thanking me again for the experience I helped them have. Now that I have found the platform to speak to a female audience, women contact me for private sessions now too. Still not nearly at the rate men do, but it's a start. 
We have event coming up this Friday that I am so excited about...
It is for our crew and select female guests. I hope that it is screaming success and becomes a regular event. Our team is filled with women with big personalities, there is nothing snarky in that observation and I am not an exception to it. We have some really amazing projects just kicking off. We have each been keeping an incredibly hectic schedule, and we know it is not easing up anytime soon.  I have had some major upheavals & changes in my vanilla world recently. Our emotions are sometimes very close to the surface and sometimes they bubble right over too. I am not making any apologies for that, our emotional investment in Princess Gemini Enterprises is a testament to how much we believe in our vision. The Girls Night Sleepover should prove to be a chance to move past the minor but jarring bumps we have hit a few times and to kick off spring ready for the best party in New England to be better than ever and go further than before.