Travel Q&A with Mistress Cassidy & slave allan

1: Now that the two month of 2018 is behind us and we look ahead to spring is upon us. Does the rebirth of spring have Mistress Cassidy planning any changes to yourself or to your dungeon and what interesting events are upcoming for you and the dungeon crew?

There is so much going on with both my dungeon at Safe Haven and with Princess Gemini Enterprises. Most of these things are still in the planning, not ready for disclosing just yet stage. But stay posted. Mistress is also moving very soon, and I may need some subbies to haul my gear where ever I'm going next. Yes, Mistress needs to move in about 6 weeks, and as of yet, I have no idea where I am going. 

2: You mentioned either to me or on your FetLife profile that you would like to pack your toy bag and travel more this year to offer your domination to other willing subs. I realize that traveling to my neck of the woods is

not in the plans but is there some destinations that you may be considering.

Canada actually is on the agenda for July, but I am looking at Toronto to visit a friend of mine.

Let's see what's on the calendar so far... I'm heading to Richmond next Sunday, March 4th. I'll be there for 2 or 3 days, and sessions will be available while I am there.

Then Mistress is heading to Myrtle Beach, SC for more of a workcation

And then the whirlwind trip will wrap up with Mistress spending a few days having some glorious downtime with a playmate in xxxxxxxx. No sessions will be happening during that leg of the trip.

Austin is tentatively on the calendar for June. There are a couple more trips also penciled on the calendar, but those like the plans for the dungeon & parties are still in that not ready to announce stage.

3: You mentioned on FetLife that you need some help and you have a need for an assistant. For those fans who choose not to be on FetLife, would Mistress like to mention here for them what assistance you are looking
for.

I'm not sure which post you're referring to, I have been looking for several professionals. I was looking for a stylist, but I have found Miss Hazy and so far, she's working out quite well.

I also need a web designer to do some work on my site. 

I could use a media manager, especially when I try again to quit smoking. It's impossible for me to manage my accounts during the first few days quitting, it has been my downfall twice now.

Moments from Our Events

How busy has Mistress been? So busy that my poor blog is this neglected. I would tell you that I am rededicating myself to keeping it fresh and updated, but we all know I would be lying, right? I love keeping a journal, I love being able to revisit the highlights worth noting in ink, but I love living a life that's journal worthy far more. Sometimes that means there's just no time to jot it down. My biographer can sort through my Facebook posts and bills later to sort out what I was doing when someday. For now, this blog will continue to be a spot you may catch an update when I get to it.  

So what has kept Mistress so busy? All the things good and wonderful :) Have I mentioned that I am the lead dungeon Mistress for Princess Gemini Enterprises? If I hadn't, I have now. I virtually met Princess Gemini oh early in the fall I think. In October I responded to a message that she was looking to bring a greater BDSM atmosphere to her swinger parties. I attended her next party with my gear in tow, and the whirlwind began. 

Princess Gemini is just the sweetest, most down to earth, wildest woman you may ever have the good fortune to meet. She really embodies what it means to be a strong, sex-positive, body-positive, progressive, intelligent, and self-determined woman. Instantly I knew this was the woman I wanted to work along side. And I was beyond thrilled that she welcomed me to join her team. In just the few months that we have been working together her parties have grown quickly that we have outgrown one of our primary venues. 

I hope that some of my local lurkers decide to check out our parties soon. If you're too nervous to schedule a one on one session with me, this is the best way to get to meet me & get past your nerves. And to help you Mistress has decided to share a few of her favorite pictures from recent parties... 

Mistress Cassidy with Mister Pain's pet Miss_Sunshyne at the Glow Party.
I couldn't ask for a sweeter, more thoughtful metamour in my life.  

Mr Pain who does not care for the term switch & really isn't, submitting to a demo flogging with lovely but out of the frame Mistress Nightshade. 

Mistress Cassidy flogging our Princess at our Mardi Gras party

I don't know why, but I take the best selfies in the restroom. Mistress getting ready for a night of fun at Twizted Acres. 

The Glow after party, Mistress had an amazing night, with body after body submitting to her floggings. I think when most of us think of aftercare we think about what our subs need. Of course a Top's responsibility doesn't end until their sub has been properly cared for after a scene, but Tops need aftercare too. This is what it looks like for me. My adorable cuddly stylist Hazy and Gemini letting me melt into them so I can release all the energy I absorb from my scenes and recharge so that I can do it again!

Monday Q&A with slave allan and Mistress Cassidy

1: You mentioned that your partner has his own business and fabricates
things for the fetish community. Would you like to tell us about the
items crafted by him that you personally own and use in your dungeon?

My primary partner, "MisterpeterPain" on Fetlife, is a multi-disciplined artist and craftsman. I have many items of his that I own, love & cherish. I permanently wear three pieces of his art on my body, my concepts, his work. A yin-yang on the back of my neck, that mirrors one on the back of his. An artistic rendering of the Islamic prayer, Bismillah, on my shoulder blade. And a face that has been split in half by a flash of lightning on my inner arm that was inspired by artwork from the movie & play, Hedwig and the Angry Inch. But I suppose you weren't asking about my tastes in art. At this time there isn't any furniture of Pain's in my dungeon. For many years I had several large pieces that he had made when he was the dungeon master of a club in Rhode Island, but after trekking them on too many moves over the years, they are no more. There is currently the components for a rotating cross in the workshop, and I am so looking forward to its completion. What is in my dungeon of Pain's, let me think. Dream and Dancer, my go-to floggers for parties that I have mentioned here at least a million times were made by him. My silver handled black leather flogger, Destroyer, is his work. My 6 piece patent leather cuff set that has seen over 20 years of heavy use was also originally from his former dungeon.  I am totally drawing a blank now, I know there are many more pieces by him but I can't think of specifics. Well in any case, there are many of his pieces in my dungeon and he is very indulgent of me and when a new idea pops into my head for a wicked little piece, he's quick to turn my ideas into reality.

2: A few years back there was a series I watched on television called Kink. On one episode an individual was having what looked like marbles implanted into the shaft of his penis. The explanation was it heighten arousal when stimulated. What is your opinion Mistress on body modification?

I've never caught the show, but I'm going to assume he was having surgical steel balls inserted and not glass marbles. Marbles would probably be a poor choice for implanting but to each their own if I am mistaken. I have no idea if having surgical steel balls implanted in one's penis will enhance sexual experiences for oneself or one's partners. What I do know is that when people enhance their bodies in ways they feel good about, whether that is permanent or temporary, it is a good thing. While I don't always personally enjoy the aesthetics of everyone I stumble across, I do appreciate the courage of those willing to step outside of the norm and rock whatever makes them feel best.

3: As your slave, I will always ask you, Mistress, first when I have a question about the scene or BDSM in general. But for individuals just starting to explore their kinks and have a desire to know more about the scene is there any books or literature that you would suggest for them to read.

I should probably invest some time in perusing current BDSM how-to literature. It has been so many years since I read BDSM 101 and Screw the Roses, that while I vaguely remember feeling they were informative at the time, I have no idea if they would live up to my current expectations of what an introduction to BDSM should include. So I don't have a go-to here, and I should.