Want to Come on Adventures with Me?

There's an episode of Beavis and Butthead where they are capping on Madonna's video for the song Secret. They say something about how she could be anyone's white haired granny. Then both acknowledge that they'd still do her. Later Butthead remarks on how Madonna is always masturbating in her videos. Beavis replies he always masturbates when Madonna's videos are on too. To which Butthead says, but she's doing Madonna when she masturbates.
Madonna was 36 when Secret was released in 1994.

Next Sunday, November 24th, Mistress Cassidy will be celebrating forty-seven revolutions around the sun. When I touch myself....

Let's recap 46:

• A few hundred hours engaged with clients
• More or less an equal amount of time camming
• Approximately 4 times the combined total of the 1st two items, advertising, screening, setting up and cleaning up for the 1st item. 
• Less than 75 days spent with those I have a personal dynamic with, total
• About 70 nights in hotels
• Six trips to Massachusetts/New England 
• An equal number of trips to states I am not at liberty to disclose 
• dozens of munches and small venue demo events
• 2 conventions
• 4 party or club events 
• Hosted 3 parties

If we compared 46 to 45, most would stay the same but the parties would rise dramatically. I believe I was the dungeon Mistress for around 30 parties in 2018. 

I miss dancing at parties. I miss having dozens of fresh bodies under Dreamer and Dancer. Thirty is too many, 3 is too few. Twelve work-cations is about the right number, but half to the same destination is not. 

Happiness lies in your own hands...

The decision to take a sabbatical from professional sessions is part of my ever fine-tuning to bring my reality more perfectly inline with being everything I wish it to be. 

My 47th year will include a trip to Las Vegas, and another to Orlando. Did you know that Iceland has one of the only Toys R Us that didn't go out of business? How about that there is some tourist trap in Punta Cana that is the "Home of Sponge Bob"? Thanks to YouTube, a little person reminds me of these facts a couple hundred times a day. Those trips are really more apt to happen in 2021, but sketching them out has begun. 

I will be hosting parties again, locally and out of state. 

I intend to prepare for my Reiki master attunement. I wish to learn more about Tantric massage.  

I wish to explore the depths of my dynamics. I will engage with submissives who truly wish to serve. I will indulge in the activities I enjoy, and give exactly no fucks about how my exhibitionism or my submission to my top impacts my brand.

Do you want to come with me? I want you to come with me. Cue Hed PE, I want you to cum for me, just cum for me...

Seriously though there are ways you can be part of this, and I do want you to be a part of this. 

You can follow my platforms. You are suppose to be following my platforms already. Listen though, this is important. You really need to follow me on multiple platforms, all of them if you can. Instagram, Facebook and Snapchat have all announced new guidelines aimed at harming the businesses of those of us who work in the adult industry. I will likely tackle this subject in an entry soon, but I am not dragging out that soapbox tonight.  Please follow multiple platforms because on a whim, at any time, IG, FB and SC can opt to disappear my account. My content will be lost, my connections, fans and anyone I network with through that platform will be gone if I don't have those things duplicated, triplicated, written in ink on the inside of my binder like this is the stone ages. My understanding is that even promoting this blog on my personal Facebook account puts that account at risk. 

Fetlife isn't any more stable than the vanilla platforms. The guidelines for professionals on Fetlife have never been fully welcoming, FL could opt to tighten them at any time.

Do you enjoy the stories I share? Want to hear more? What if I promised to tell you what my top growled in my ear the last time we were playing? I bite my lip whenever I remember the moment.
Do you like the photos I share? Want to see more? 

I am exhibitionist. I am also just a little uptight. Protocol, manners, and etiquette matter to me. Not being vulgar, not being inappropriate matters to me. I want you to watch. I want you to lean in close even. But I will not be posting the video of me gagging on....see, I'm not going to finish that sentence. You know where it was going. I am not sharing that video just any place. It's not going to be lost among the never ending clicks of next on Pornhub. It is not going to be blasted on adult Twitter. My videos will never be the reason that some mom is mortified when she hands off her phone to do nanny duty and a little vanilla person opens the wrong app.
I think Megadeth should pen another stanza to Peace Sells. What do you mean I don't follow community standards? 

Do you want to watch it though? Ask nicely, I'll send you an invitation. Maybe a front row seat.
  

You want to see want to see how Mistress Cassidy plays in private? Do you want to follow me to Vegas? Aqua's going with that heart-shaped, Kevlar ass of hers. Mistress Dahlia, oh my- Mistress Dahlia and all the magic she is will be in Vegas.

Do you want to see the morning pictures I send to my top every day? Hear how we engage in the time in between in-person time?

Should my travels bring me to your area, do you hope to meet me?
Want to come to my events for a special rate?

When you finally work up the nerve to approach me about the possibility of serving me, do you want me to even entertain the possibility?

Go on, try to tell me that none of that made your panties a little damp. Then when we're done being fibbers, watch for the link.

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11/11/19 Make Wishes All Day Day!

 

Some grade school teacher I had suggested that beginning sentences with I was a sign of pathological ego mania, so I just spent 10 minutes trying to find a sentence to kick of this post that didn't. I don't know why I bothered, I don't recall which grade school teacher it was and I fully embrace that I am an ego maniac. This is the Cassidy Channel. All day, every day, play my way or go away.

I should edit that and save it for the next entry which will be the one where I actually announce the thing. I am not announcing the thing today.

I have just a little cranky mercury retrograde and hormones and who are you that I am trying to justify my delay or my crankiness to?   

This is a Monday entry. It will have a schedule, goals and the sorts of things befitting all the awesomeness that is a Monday. And it is November 11th. The third best day of November, 11-11 you can make wishes all day if you're so inclined. What days are second best and very best day of November? Well, you do remember that Cassidy's birthday is approaching, don't you? November 24th will mark 47 years I have been gracing the universe with my charm. That's the second best day. The best day of this month has already passed. It really isn't appropriate to share here, juggling while riding unicycle- ya know. But when one is even more significant than myself, I must acknowledge them if only covertly.  

If you are inclined to recognize my day, there are some newly added links up & over there----> to make it easier for you. 

The post that will come later this week will be the follow up to this post on Fetlife HERE As I have explained before, you have to have an account with Fetlife to read anything there. Their rules, not mine. 

Where can you find Mistress Cassidy this week? Did you read the post? For the foreseeable future, unless we share DNA, are in a dynamic (or are entertaining one) with me, or you attend local to me events, the only place you will see me will be HERE  (and the virtual places I will list below) More of you will get to see more of me, literally and figuratively.  This thrills my exhibitionist-inclined  self.  Not many of you will get to engage one on one with me anymore. That statement is causing me to experience all feelings, and not all of them are enjoyable. That is among the reasons I am delaying the rest of the announcement. I let a little of my anger about this choice show in the post on Fet, truthfully I only have a little anger about it. A little anger, a little sadness, a little disappointment. Completely reasonable and proportionate feelings about a significant change in my life. I wish to process them fully before kicking off the next thing. I do not want them to carry over or unexpectedly return on some other day. 

I am far more excited, impatiently anticipating and inspired by the new project. If I let these feelings simmer just a bit longer they will burn off all the others. Then this will be really ready to share. 

The schedule I am hoping to maintain this week will be 4p-6p and 9p to Midnight, most days. Today I will not have a 4-6 broadcast as I will be in a conference call with Princess Gemini sketching out the initial plans for January (did you miss my travel schedule post? I am going to Vegas in January!!!)  and tossing around some other ideas. Friday there probably won't be a 9p-midnight broadcast as there is a local munch I intend to attend. As always, because my schedule is my bitch to push around as I see fit, follow my platforms so as not to miss unexpected broadcast and to not find yourself holding your breath for me when I am not going to show up after all. Although I do really like it when a bottom holds their breath for me. 

I hope everyone's Monday is filled with granted wishes and goals that spark their inspiration and quiet their self-doubt. 

Where one can virtually find Mistress Cassidy:

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A Guest Post by Our Slave allan

        Below is a guest post from our favorite long distance slave with secretarial leanings.  For the sake of length, I edited allan's work heavily. Perhaps he'll repost the entry in its entirety on his blog in the future. I was so pleased that I did not find myself needing to correct typos and spelling errors. There is also a sentence that I put in italics. Slave allan is now simply my friend. He yields proper respect and deference to me, as a former submissive should show their former Master after a healthy BDSM dynamic comes to an end. He does not have any obligations to me, formal or informal at this time.  His writing is his own. It is his skill set, his passion and how he chooses to invest his time. Allan has a thing is his life now, that brings him joy, that belongs to him and that he may do whatever he wishes with whether that is pursuing it professionally or continuing to do simply for his enjoyment, He has that now because I asked him to sacrifice a thing for me three years ago. He has grown, his skill set has improved (in leaps and bounds by the way) because I would not accept less than his best.   

TO BE A COLLARED SLAVE

What does that mean to you? As a newbie I figured collared slave simply meant wearing a collar and being led around by a leash. But I was wrong, being a collared slave has much more implication to it than that, as I've come to find out.

For a brief time I was Mistress Cassidy's first online LDR slave.  At first I had a three month slave contract.  Within that contract I had weekly tasks that I was required to do. I had a rule requiring me to wear a pair of women's panties while performing those tasks, occasionally the panties were all that I was allowed to have on while working, then other task I was permitted to wear the panties beneath my clothing. No, I am not wearing panties now.

I also had restrictions placed on me. This part is what I found the hardest of all. Mistress Cassidy's biggest restriction in my opinion was being cut off from adult material. 100% restricted from porn of any kind. With the exception of certain FetLife groups that she had to approve of. Otherwise no photos, no videos, and no erotica. I hated the no erotica the most. But that is why I started writing erotica. There was no restrictions on creating it. The other part of being someone's collared slave is respect, obedience, asking permission and finally discipline/ punishment. Which for me is the threat of maple syrup hanging over me.

<Mistress Cassidy edited>

It is my opinion that the use of the word collared, should be reserved for use in its intended meaning, commitment. The lifestyle should adopt a new word for uses within the freer less restricted online play. As I was thinking about this, I was tossing possible ideas around that might work. I came up with tagged, as in, I've been tagged by Mistress so and so as her slave, or simply the tagged slave of… That's my two cents worth. But I'm sure there are better ideas out there to be considered.

Overall I appreciate allan's point of view here. It is an interesting topic for debate. At the end of the day though I am of the opinion that how an individual or a dynamic identifies itself is theirs to define. My own dynamic is with someone I do not share a home or a home-state with. It is maintained between visits online. No matter where I am on the planet, no matter where my top is in relation to my location, I am his. His expectations for me are not lowered or freer based on proximity.

There is a whole debate going on whether you can do a D/s relationship online. Well let me put it this way. I would not be doing this article if I was not doing it to please an online Domme. For me I find it very rewarding when Mistress Cassidy calls me slave. Plus I face very real consequences if I have too many spelling mistakes or typos. Don't believe me, check out this post on a punishment I received because I misspelled Paul by doing this (qual.) I got nailed big time for that. Check this post out if you wish. https://slaveallan68.blogspot.com/2018/02/finally-i-completed-it.html?zx=2cbd56a3c3ab3b2d

Thank you slave.