Below is a guest post from our favorite long distance slave with secretarial leanings. For the sake of length, I edited allan's work heavily. Perhaps he'll repost the entry in its entirety on his blog in the future. I was so pleased that I did not find myself needing to correct typos and spelling errors. There is also a sentence that I put in italics. Slave allan is now simply my friend. He yields proper respect and deference to me, as a former submissive should show their former Master after a healthy BDSM dynamic comes to an end. He does not have any obligations to me, formal or informal at this time. His writing is his own. It is his skill set, his passion and how he chooses to invest his time. Allan has a thing is his life now, that brings him joy, that belongs to him and that he may do whatever he wishes with whether that is pursuing it professionally or continuing to do simply for his enjoyment, He has that now because I asked him to sacrifice a thing for me three years ago. He has grown, his skill set has improved (in leaps and bounds by the way) because I would not accept less than his best.
TO BE A COLLARED SLAVE
What does that mean to you? As a newbie I figured collared slave simply meant wearing a collar and being led around by a leash. But I was wrong, being a collared slave has much more implication to it than that, as I've come to find out.
For a brief time I was Mistress Cassidy's first online LDR slave. At first I had a three month slave contract. Within that contract I had weekly tasks that I was required to do. I had a rule requiring me to wear a pair of women's panties while performing those tasks, occasionally the panties were all that I was allowed to have on while working, then other task I was permitted to wear the panties beneath my clothing. No, I am not wearing panties now.
I also had restrictions placed on me. This part is what I found the hardest of all. Mistress Cassidy's biggest restriction in my opinion was being cut off from adult material. 100% restricted from porn of any kind. With the exception of certain FetLife groups that she had to approve of. Otherwise no photos, no videos, and no erotica. I hated the no erotica the most. But that is why I started writing erotica. There was no restrictions on creating it. The other part of being someone's collared slave is respect, obedience, asking permission and finally discipline/ punishment. Which for me is the threat of maple syrup hanging over me.
<Mistress Cassidy edited>
It is my opinion that the use of the word collared, should be reserved for use in its intended meaning, commitment. The lifestyle should adopt a new word for uses within the freer less restricted online play. As I was thinking about this, I was tossing possible ideas around that might work. I came up with tagged, as in, I've been tagged by Mistress so and so as her slave, or simply the tagged slave of… That's my two cents worth. But I'm sure there are better ideas out there to be considered.
Overall I appreciate allan's point of view here. It is an interesting topic for debate. At the end of the day though I am of the opinion that how an individual or a dynamic identifies itself is theirs to define. My own dynamic is with someone I do not share a home or a home-state with. It is maintained between visits online. No matter where I am on the planet, no matter where my top is in relation to my location, I am his. His expectations for me are not lowered or freer based on proximity.
There is a whole debate going on whether you can do a D/s relationship online. Well let me put it this way. I would not be doing this article if I was not doing it to please an online Domme. For me I find it very rewarding when Mistress Cassidy calls me slave. Plus I face very real consequences if I have too many spelling mistakes or typos. Don't believe me, check out this post on a punishment I received because I misspelled Paul by doing this (qual.) I got nailed big time for that. Check this post out if you wish. https://slaveallan68.blogspot.com/2018/02/finally-i-completed-it.html?zx=2cbd56a3c3ab3b2d
Thank you slave.
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