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Showing posts with label Virginia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Virginia. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Who Knew Mornings Looked Like This?


Since April 28th I have taken a photo every morning for my top. I am not a morning person. I have never, ever, under any circumstance, been a morning person. I often stay up all night and I see the sunrise from that angle. I can't recall a time I saw it after waking up. 
I started working out a few times a week on that date too. It was suppose to be daily. I wasn't very good at keeping to that request. My argument went something like: I am incredibly active, I get at least 25 minutes of aerobic activity a day, I've been a 2 pack a day smoker for 30 years and btw there are only 24 hours in a day.
On July 24th an awful thing happened. Remember I asked you to respect my privacy on that one. I am still holding you to that request. I am only referring back to it so I might say, on July 25th I decided I had to again make dramatic changes to how I do things. 
That happens. There is a yin-yang tattoo on the back of my neck, balance.  Balance isn't a static thing. It is not this and that being equal at all times. It is this grows, so that shirks. This expands and that must contract. It is this approach worked for all this time, but time has moved forward and so must you. 
One of the first things I had to address was my finances. I don't wish to overshare on my blog. Stop laughing. Showing my breasts is not oversharing, that's just playful teasing. Sharing my bank statements, that's oversharing. Those that know me know the circumstances that returned me to Virginia, and those that do not, well you probably don't need to know. My finances did not, that could be the complete statement right there. My finances did not. I entertained a couple of ideas. They all would have ended with sacrificing one or the other of the two things I feel most passionately about. Everyone reading knows what one of those is, right? I am not ready to retire. Some of you know what the other is, I am not asking that corner of my world to make another sacrifice ever again.

A very good friend of mine had talked to me a couple of times about the company they were investing their time in, and I revisited the idea with them. And I went in circles with the idea for a little bit. I have done direct sales before. I am pretty sure I promoted Avon on this blog for a little while, remember? I love Avon. I have a package of Skin So Soft wipes in my purse right now, and another in my glove box. And, I bet the other 6 Avon Ladies that live in my complex do too. I support my friends who work in direct sales. Because when it comes down to it, it is a form of business ownership that is within the reach of most people's budgets. I love Athena's toys, and when I am in the mood for a new battery powered partner, I need to check my notes to remember which of my Goddess friends I ordered from last time.  This company is brand new to the US market, my upline is part of the team bringing it to the US. I love Jamberry Nails, but when I want to change the color on my toes, I don't want to bust out my hair dryer. Jeunesse is health and wellness, there are no gimmicks in any of our lines. Wait, that may be the conflict I can't get past there. Health and wellness. Anyone who has eaten at my table has been subjected to a lecture on denatured proteins that happen when cereal is created using high heat extrusion to create puffs, flakes & special shapes. Anyone who has eaten at my table has likely been fed tomato sauce that was canned in my kitchen from tomatoes grown in my garden, seasoned with basil from my window box. My credibility on a subject I am passionate about can not be bought with an all expenses paid trip to Orlando. Even if I am put up in a suite at the Hyatt Regency on the 14th floor with a breathtaking view, an oversized bathtub and treated like a princess. Thankfully, it can be leased.  The science behind our skincare line is cutting edge. The nutritional composition of our supplements is based on a sound research.  And if you can't just take my word for it, because a woman who looks like me can't possibly also understand complex studies, or advanced scientific theories, I'll just smile and send you the links. 

I started taking Jeunesse AM & PM supplements the last week of July. Since then I have added several other products to my routine, but those were what I opted to try first.
Every day since August 1st I have worked out for a half hour within the first hour I am awake. 
One of the ethical standards hammered home in the training through Jeunesse is full disclosure. No trick lighting, no claims of curing illness, if other things factored into the results your presenting- state them. So in the name of full disclosure, on August 7th I began taking Wellbutrin to assist with the next thing I am going to state. 
On August 9th, which for the record was fifty-four days ago, I quit smoking.  
That's a photo I sent to my top maybe a week ago. It was around 9:30 in the morning. I had worked out already. I had meditated. Breakfast soup was simmering. Cassidy's Castle had been tidied up. Showering, supplements, medicine and day make-up were all checked off my To Do List. I don't think I had had my caffeine yet. I may have, and I don't want to fib. But um, ya, kind of look a little like a morning person.  I look like I am happy about it too. This is what every morning looks like now. 

And yes, I do want to grow my team. Why wouldn't I? This has been an amazing journey for me already and I know it's only going to grow from here. So go check out my site and shoot me a text. Because I haven't said anything about the travel opportunities or the philanthropy arm of the company, Jeunesse Kids, yet.  I haven't said anything about my upline and how much I have learned from them already. I suppose I implied how well the products work, but I haven't shown ya the video of wrinkles erasing themselves. 

Next entry, I promise I won't make you wait a month again for the next entry, we'll get back to indulging all you little voyeurs. 


Friday, November 23, 2018

Promotional Friday: My Favorite Player in the Scene

Starting the week with a cold, finishing it with 2 holidays (you didn't forget about Mistress's birthday Saturday, did you?) has lead to my intended posting schedule being thrown off. Monday's where can we find Mistress this week post was out on time, imnsho that is the most important post of any week. Tuesday's Q&A and Thursday's voyeuristic post were skipped. I have been way too busy for my ocd to responded very strongly to that, thankfully. Promotional Fridays though is a new thing. This will be the third post in that category, the other two can be seen here and here. I do not want to skip a week with a new idea. I haven't decided yet if this is will be a year round thing or if it's just here for the holidays. If it's just here for the holidays, I especially do not wish to miss a week.
Besides, it has been my intention to feature my favorite person in the scene this week, me.

Oh Mistress, is your ego really that big? No. Maybe. Sometimes. Yes. Yes, my ego is this big when I am Mistress Cassidy Cream. I am my favorite person in the scene. I have built, refined and perfected this version of myself for nearly 20 years. I am kind of a big deal to me. In 1999, a 27 year old version of me,  agreed to meet a stranger off the internet at the Providence Place Mall, to discuss how he would enjoy being slapped around. I will say it again, in case you have missed it in other posts, this person was absolutely aware that I had no experience in this role. Have I ever mentioned, I still hear from him? We do not have an ongoing dynamic. I think it has been over a decade since I last saw him, but about once a year I get a call or an email from him. I am never, ever going to sleep with you; and you are never ever going to forget me. When I said that in the first post here, did you think I was just posturing? 
Some things have remained consistent since that first scene. I am always honest about my experience with an activity. My firmest limits are still the same, refer back to when I might sleep with you. I pushed on some limits, and verified their absoluteness. There is the silly example of the request for balloon popping. I told that story in my first podcast with Lunchbox, I'll come back & add the link. It's a long story to type and the podcast was so much fun, you should hear it. Yet some limits were not so absolute, and they fell away. For example, in the world outside my dungeon I use kind language, PC language. It took me a long time to recognize the healing a person could experience being taunted by ugly words in a safe space. 
I appreciate that with the changes I have made in the past year, my dedicated submissives may be confused about how to arrange time with me now. My new-to-me subs are likely struggling just translating my unique colloquialisms to muggle-English to see the ways we can spend time together and how to arrange for each.  I see you have been saving Ovaltine labels all year, here I have a decoder ring for you. 
However we know each other, however you found my way here to my blog, I love you. I appreciate your energy in the scene and your presence in my universe. If you think of me from time to time, while I travel and split my time between Virginia and New England, then please follow my blog, leave a comment and let me know. If you miss me, and you'd like the adult versions of the things I share here, follow my Fetlife groups. This is the group I share with Mistress Liberty and Mistress Dahlia, and THIS is my group, Alchemy with Mistress Cassidy. Each of these options are free of charge spaces where you can say hello to me, know that I will see your comment myself and it will fill my heart to know you miss me. I share teasing but tame pics on Twitter, Snapchat and Instagram. I also share the where am I right now notices on those platforms. My vanilla life dictates that my availability to sign on to Chaturbate has to remain pretty fluid. To compensate for that, I always post 5-10 minutes before I sign on to CB on each of those platforms. I recommend following me on 2 or more platforms. I have shared this on Fet already, I hesitated to share it here. It seems my account with Instagram was intentionally targeted recently. I would prefer to believe it was an innocent, accidental flagging of posts. It will be sorted out soon and my account will not remain restricted. In any case, intentional or accidental, some fans lost contact with me as a result. Following me on multiple platforms should insure that doesn't happen to you. At this time I do maintain those accounts myself, but after the holidays I will be transitioning to an auto-posting app. See above, honesty is important to me. I love interacting with everyone in the scene, I love meeting new people, but there are still only 24 hours in a day despite my requests for more. I have to better safe guard my energy if I am going to continue to have it for the activities and the people I love the most. 
My kik groups are going going to transition into premium groups. Of course I am going to stay in groups I am a member of as means of staying in touch with my friends. Nothing will change in those groups, relax Hazey- listen to what Auntie Cassidy is explaining here. My groups, the groups I created & own, those will become premium groups. At this time that includes groups catering to hypnosis, foot worship, and fans of my pics. More will be added as needed. If you are a follower already, you will be allowed to remain while the transition happens but you may be asked to tribute or make room for those that do. The fact is I share adult photos in those groups, sometimes photos I have paid a professional to take. I give micro-sessions and casually share advice and knowledge I paid to learn. I can not continue to do so. I have a very generous nature, but I am giving my energy to strangers and short changing myself, and my dynamics. I can justify exhausting myself, it is an easy thing for a woman like me to do. Short changing my kitten, three days have passed with "Call Hazey" unchecked on my To Do List, that I will never allow to happen again. Anyway, if you are unfamiliar with it, KIK is great. We can text privately or within a group, speak or cam-to-cam and your privacy & security is pretty solid. If someone tries to access your account from another device, it automatically clears your history. Snapchat is similar, and I did consider making that my premium option. But Snap erases as soon as an item is read. I love revisiting great conversations I have had with friends and subbies. KIK allows for  that. So no one will ever see our private conversations, you will be aware immediately if anyone tries and you may hold our conversation indefinitely if you wish. KIK won, Snap lost. Beginning now, those who wish to stay in touch via kik, will send a monthly tribute and then I will add them to the appropriate group. Contact me via email- cassidycream15@gmail.com to arrange your tribute, and if needed I or someone on my team will help you set-up your KIK account.  
The other way to see me no matter where I am physically is on Chaturbate. Link HERE that will take you to the website when I am not signed on, and directly to my room when I am. I am there most nights from Midnight until about 3AM. Again following me on Insta, Twitter & Snap and once you set up a Chaturbate account following me there directly will insure that you know when I am signed on. This week I am going to add Tuesday, day time hours to my schedule- unless I don't. Tuesdays and Thursdays are typically days I spend engaged in real time, private sessions. Since moving to Richmond, my in person sessions have been, as expected, less consistent. So Tuesday may be a cam day or it may continue to be a day for real play. Real play helps Tuesday to be less muggle-rific.
In person sessions, offered as one on one or as an experience as a couple; cuddling, BDSM, or mentoring in nature can be arranged by email. Deposits to insure against cold feet are required from all new-to-me clients.
Finally, my travel schedule. I will be in Virginia Beach this week. It will be a mini workcation I am gifting myself for my birthday. No, I never really just relax. Well there was this one special hour in March, but anyway let's stay focused here. I will be in Virginia beach this week, spending time at the ocean and seeing some new subbie boys. I have a couple more open appointments, if you're a fan from Norfolk, Hampton etc today is your lucky day, contact me now to arrange our time together.
Travel north. Oy vey ist mir I am just not announcing my plans again until they are in motion. I will post from the road when I pass the halfway mark, or maybe that is too tempting to fate too. Maybe I will wait until I drive by the Big Blue Bug. A trip north is on the agenda for December. I could tap my regulars, I could ask that they prepay their session time. Several have offered to already. And how stressed would I have been getting sick last week if I felt like I owed one of my longest, dearest, favored subbies time in the dungeon? The energy in a session is very important to me, and to how I experience my scenes, beginning from a place of feeling like I owe you this time doesn't work for me. So no prepays, no deposits until I am physically there. If you wish to help make this happen, as a birthday gift or because you appreciate the time I share with you here, you are welcome to contribute here: paypal.me/cassidycream 

That's my new Fetlife profile picture. I debated changing my face-obscured photo for a long time. When I choose that one it was with much forethought. I didn't wish to mislead anyone about my age, imagine at 36 I was concerned about how people perceived my age. Bahaha. I didn't want to change the photo constantly, I got a decade of use from it so it was a success on that front. And at that time, full face shots were too much exposure even in a closed, members only forum. This is 46. Well this was 45 and 51 weeks. Untouched, a little contouring yes, but unfiltered. Full face, dropped my legal name here on at least 2 occasions, we are all out and we are owning this space.

Monday, October 22, 2018

Finally Formally Unveiling New Project

      Happy Monday. I didn't time travel this weekend. This post is being penned on Monday afternoon, long after the goal of all posts posting at 11:11 AM on the day they are assigned. Slightly off-schedule, but overall staying on task. I hope to catch up the posts for the rest of the week tomorrow, and be back on schedule too. 

     Monday posts are for lists, schedules and announcing new stuff. Let's get on with it. 
     Mistress is still in Richmond, Virginia. This is both a wonderful, and an awful thing. Richmond feeds my soul,I will stay here until I am old and gray and really not complain about it much. But I do have things to do in Massachusetts. My regulars are blowing up my phone, and I am so sorry that I still don't have travel dates firmly established. I very much want to see my favorite bottoms. I love that I am meeting new subs here, but I haven't been here long enough to have the same connection established with them. There is something so special about seeing a client you have known for a decade, can't have that in a place you have only been for 2 months. I have projects on hold with Mistresses Liberty and Dahlia, and several lovely little subbies that I am so disappointed that I have to continue to reschedule. I also need to claim my winter wardrobe, and move my belongings to long term storage or light them on fire, whatever feels right in the moment. The things that altered my plans were beyond my control. I am now reclaiming all control of all things, and seeing what I can do to magic a trip up soon. So please know coming back to Massachusetts is very high on my To Do List, it is a top 10 item on a list that is at least 100 items long. When I know dates, you will know dates. I will announce it loudly on all platforms. 

     The new project that has kicked off. If you follow me anywhere you have probably already caught the soft launch. Deep breath and dive, let's say it out loud: Mistress Cassidy is now offering live cam shows with Chaturbate. Expect to see assorted affiliate promotional stuff added to the blog as soon as I have a chance to redecorate here. Can I share a thing? I am the boldest person I know, excuse my ego but it is a true statement. Anxiety, fear, worry, these feelings are not ones I am terribly familiar with and when they do pop up, (I am human I do feel these things occasionally) I tell them to sit back down and stay out of my way. This idea caused me some anxiety. It was suggested months ago, with much encouragement and solid reasoning behind it, by someone who's opinion I value greatly. They pointed out that I can stay in touch with my regulars no matter where I am. That I can grow my base, and reach subs everywhere. There may have been some ego feeding compliments too, ones appreciating the things one can see and ones that really feed me by recognizing the parts of me you can not. I was terribly resistant to the idea. But not for the reasons you might think. It had nothing to do with modesty, Mistress has no modesty. It was thoughts like, what does the optics on that look like? Does this negatively impact my brand? Real Dommes don't cam. Real Dommes do not take requests from boys. Real Dommes are all sexuality and no sex. I am Mistress Cassidy Cream. I have 20 years invested in the scene. I am a real domme. I am also an exhibitionist. I love an audience. I tease boys and I really like it. I work as a cam model now, ergo, real Dommes cam now. 

You can find me HERE most nights, I sign on around midnight EST and hang out until around 3 AM. 

Oh! I nearly forgot to share, and that's kind of cool. I nearly forgot because it feels like such a non-thing 99% of the time already. Mistress is 19 days cigarette-free. A week ago I tried to smoke a cigar, it was foul & gross, so it doesn't count at all. If it did, a week ago is a long time ago and clearly it didn't cause me to start back up again. 

VIRTUAL SPACES:
Chaturbate: mistresscassidycream
Phone: 207-730-9839
Text ONLY: 401-287-2877
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Fetlife: MistressCassidy
Twitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
KIK Groups: 
Pretty feet of Massachusetts & RI
RI Footlovers
Erotic Hypnosis with Mistress Cassidy Cream
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
Blog:
https://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/

Monday, October 8, 2018

Have You Missed Me?


How much have you missed me? Have you been pining away for me? Holding your breath desperately wishing I would return? And yet you didn't send me presents, or flowers for my new space. We really need to work on how you express your feelings. 
lolz
I've missed my blog so much. There's a half dozen, half completed entries stored organically in the left side lobe. This one and at least one other will make it out into a shareable form, the others will likely get lost in idea purgatory. Oh well, only the strong survive. 
I had every intention of focusing on my blog during my time in Richmond, the best of intentions. Do you see Samuel Jackson about to waste Flock of Seagulls every time you hear best of intentions too? Let's not talk about our intentions, best or otherwise, let's focus instead on what has happened.  
Right before I left Massachusetts a good friend in Virginia reached out to offer her condo to me. She has a commitment that has her traveling at this time too, and her place would be sitting empty if I didn't need it. Isn't it funny how things come together when one is on the right path? An affordable and comfortable space to use pretty much as long as I need, I can take my time looking for a space that meets all of my needs. The universe is so kind to me. 
My travel schedule was changed by factors beyond my control. The plan was to be back in Massachusetts October 5th, it is the 8th and here I am in Richmond. It inconvenienced me, but I am trying my best to remember what I said above, things work out when one is on the right path. It is so much easier to remember when the unexpected thing is happy surprise. It isn't too hard to accept being in Richmond longer than planned. I am thrilled to be home again. I am not sure when I will be returning to Massachusetts next, but it will be within the next few weeks. I believe I will be able to commit to dates within the next few days. If we had tentative plans during my return please know that I will be reaching out to you as soon as my plans are firm.  
I have 2 new projects I had planned on unveiling in this post today, but I think the official announcement is being pushed back to Thursday's Q&A post with slave allan. I may let it slip before then on Insta- you know how bad Mistress is with surprises. You do follow me on Instagram, right? 
The scene in Richmond is as different from Massachusetts as it was when I was here before. Submissives are reaching out tentatively. I am hearing similar stories from each. It has been a long time since a professional of note called Richmond home. Traveling dommes and would-be dommes pop up from time to time. The standards and ethics of each varying greatly. The subs here are reluctant to session at a hotel, and try harder for a public pre-session meeting. I'll indulge them until my permanent space is established. I am so happy to be home, and I am so looking forward to expanding the scene experience here. 
Oh and I did a thing five days ago. I wasn't planning on talking about it until the 10th, until it was a thing I did 7 days ago. See above and how horrible I am with surprises. I quit smoking. I feel much more confident this time is The Time. Five days no slipping up, no stolen drags off of friends smokes or 2 AM quiet my thoughts emergency smokes. I step away when I am around smokers. I accept it is my responsibility to not ask, not theirs to say no to me. And when my thoughts have been overwhelming, which sometimes they are, I remember all the other problem solving skills I have. Smoking was never really a problem solving tool, it was just its own problem that needed to be fed so I could deal with other things. I don't suspect I am going to talk about it much more after this post. I will probably announce that it has been a week on Facebook on Wednesday and that will likely be the last of it. 
Mistress has a full week ahead of her. There are promotional photos to take, and announcements to pen. Getting back on track with the pace I want to keep here. New local subbies to grace with my presence. And a return to Massachusetts to plan.  Find me on the platforms below and watch for the big announcements... 


VIRTUAL SPACES:
Phone: 207-730-9839
Text ONLY: 401-287-2877
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Fetlife: MistressCassidy
Twitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
KIK Groups: 
Pretty feet of Massachusetts & RI
RI Footlovers
Erotic Hypnosis with Mistress Cassidy Cream
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
Blog:
https://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/

Monday, August 27, 2018

Monday: Where is Mistress this Week?


In less than 2 weeks Mistress Cassidy kicks of her Richmond, Virginia adventure. Also referred to in the vanilla world as Operation Go Home. August has been a whirlwind of work, trips, and more work. Somehow I do not feel exhausted. Oh there have been moments of exhaustion; but there have been far more moments of exhilaration. An idea I had been trying to quiet for years, just wouldn't go away. So I really contemplated it. It seemed it might work. If this happened, if that happened, maybe I could make this work. I believe in fate, in kismet, in the serendipitous nature of life. That was even the name of my farm, Serendipity. And while I believe this is a manifestation of those concepts, that this is the next best and right thing for me, getting here has not been all navel gazing and lounging poolside. I made a plan. I put it in action. I did the work. I want this, I deserve this, and I will have it. 
My sessions these past few weeks have been amazing. New submissives, returning clients, an eclectic range of themes; every one of them has just felt more magical. slave allan has been a helpful little slave doing what I have asked of him. I guided my boi through some challenges. I have a new devoted subbie that I am contemplating collaring. My top heard my moments of anxiety, and helped me stay focused through them. It has not been easy, but my efforts have netted results. 
Where can one find Mistress this week? Sadly this is the point where I must say if you haven't already confirmed an appointment with me, chances are you will not be able to until I return in October. If you had been penciled in but have failed to confirm, reach out now. I forgot my calendar somewhere last night, fate may have saved your spot for you. I am picking it up momentarily. I am available on a catch me if you can basis for phone and cam sessions. This week is fully booked, and then my attention will be turned only to last visits with those I share DNA with and packing. My return in October is absolute. I am already booking appointments for it. If any Virginia soon-to-be fans have found their way to my blog, now is the time to contact for your time with me in September. I expect to be settled in to my new space by the 15th. Haven't found it yet, but I trust that I will.  
Promotions and groups specifically for my Virginia subs will be set-up soon, but in the mean time follow me in the following spaces to stay in the loop. 

VIRTUAL SPACES:
Phone: 207-730-9839
Text ONLY: 401-287-2877
email: cassidycream15@gmail.com
Fetlife: MistressCassidyTwitter: Cassidy Cream
Insta: Cassidy Cream
Snap: cassidycream
KIK: Mistresscassidycream
KIK Groups: Pretty feet of Massachusetts & RI
RI Footlovers
Erotic Hypnosis with Mistress Cassidy Cream
Financial Domination, Wishlists & PayPigs
Airtightlifestyle.com: Mistress Cassidy
Blog:
https://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/